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He loves me, he loves me not - the effects 2007-06-13 13:23:37 He loves me/he loves me not ?
- this is the question that stays in her mind every single day .. and even more:
Thoughts like: “Where is he now?”, “Who is he with?”, “Is he thinking about me ?”, “What should I do to make him love me?” are in her mind every day and you can see it her eyes, in her gestures, in her acts.
She defends herself saying that is just a little jealousy came out of true love. But I am wondering if this is really… but I mean really true sign of love.
Moreover, what do you feel when every single day you hear questions like: “Where have you been and who was with you?” or “Why did she look at you that way?” or “When do you get back?” or “Call me from time to time, just to make sure you’re alright”.
Is this “love” or it becomes pressure ?
She starts calling and checking, looking into my mobile, into my inbox, into my files.. into my everything.. I fee
Seduction power 2007-06-07 12:34:47 I remember having a secret relationship with a woman in the past that I have never made it public. And I was having several reasons: one of them was that I was actually cheating on my girlfriend with this woman and the other one was that she had a quite bad reputation and it might have affected my job too (but she was amazing in bad).
One day I had to take her out; you know, usual thing like having a coffee in a bar. It was a well known bar, right in the city downtown. Although she was looking terribly good, smelling extremely sexy, I was in panic. A mixture of excitement with fear and curiosity was burning me inside out.
I could barely forbid myself to touch her or kiss her. My mind was full of thoughts like what if somebody sees me, what if there is someone here who knows me and would like to say “hi”. I would have been finished - my 2 years girlfriend would have suffered enormously, my friends would have pointed finger on me…
I started to think that I was probably Read more:power
Making love is a sin ? 2007-06-04 14:14:43 God asked us to love each other. What is the limit of HIS.. request. What did HE mean ? Am I a sinner just because I love women so much ?!? - I am talking about making love with different women and not about .. that platonic love and carrying.
I am not a very religious person but I am quite afraid of God and I really don’t want to be a sinner. And I have this..”problem” ever since I’ve had my first intimate relationship with a woman (she was about to getting married when she .. initiated me into the love mysteries ). I do not smoke, I do not drink (only occasionally), I do not take drugs, I do not have any other .. bad habits. But I love women and women seem to love me back. So, is this a sin ?
I know or people say that I should love only one woman. But what is wrong with being able to love several women ?! Some say that is not possible - I do not agree. I feel so bad that women feel hurt or disappointed if you share your love with another woman. Yeah, yeah, I k
Dating or denouncing ? 2007-05-29 14:36:55 I wrote some time ago about cheating between best friends. This subject just came to my mind again because I had some very strong memories of a cheating wife flirting with me, right next to one of my good friends.
As a man, I felt good - it is always flattering when a women is so interested in you. But as friend, I felt terrible. I was wondering what should I do: should I denounce the cheater or should I keep it secret and take advantage of a very, very tempting affair.
Of course, as a good friend, probably the best thing to do would have been to simply warn my friend about his dangerous dating. But the situation was not that simple. She was not a dating, she was his .. wife. And in such case, could I risk to damage the marriage only by suggesting some “assumptive” flirts. I would have also risked to raise envy feelings to my friend or to destroy his trust in his wife and thus his entire relationship.
What is the best thing to do in such a situation ?
Probably I know, but o Read more:Dating
Where cheating starts from? 2007-05-19 18:53:21 I was talking with a friend today if there is anybody there, I mean a married person, who has never cheated his partner all marriage long. Actually, the discussion got more complicated - who are we talking about ? what kind of people ? how is cheating around the globe ? and so on…
We both agreed that a couple where at least one of them is a very attractive person, well that couple is more exposed to the risk of cheating than a couple of two ugly people. Or maybe not …
For example, in my case (I look pretty good ), I’m not sure if it would be possible for me , nor for my woman, to stay “clean” all life long - I am trying to be realistic here. I have a beautiful woman and I am sure she has a lot of men asking her out at this very moment, as for me, I am a man and like all men, I might be tempted one day to “hunt again”. Still, what we could do (and what we do) is to protect each other. Moreover, I am probably prepared to understand if she has
Best friends and love cheating 2007-05-17 16:33:16 What a strange and powerful feeling you can have when you’re dating your best friend’s lover !
You should try this, at least one time in your life. I know it sounds crazy to recommend such a thing (and maybe disgusting) , but those who have tried that can confirm what I am about to describe below.
From the very first moment, from the first flirts, down to a serious and intimate relationship you will notice that every feeling, every touch, every kiss or caress is 10 times more intensive than as usual. The fear, the secret, the thought of doing something bad and so prohibited, so non-ethical, so .. unfair maybe, all these things give you such a powerful and hard to resist sensation.
Between men there is always competition, between women there is always envy. This is what, in my opinion, gives this tremendous power to this feeling.
Another “black & sweet” thought can bring life in your mind if you will just try to imagine how devastating it could be for everybo
At the office - loving or cheating ? 2007-05-15 15:48:35 8 hours per day or even more…
Working hard, side by side, being in the same team, going through successes or failures, having lunch together, laughing and making jokes, bad-talking the boss - what all these things can create between a man and a woman ?
What happens when they start changing looks, glancing at each other or simply not being able to have a short brake without each other ?
Moreover, what happens if they accicentaly touch each other ?
How should I think about all this without suspecting myself that I am not getting into a love affair with my working colleague, that things will not evolve even more and finally end with a .. romantic evening or.. maybe in a very delicate and warm bad ?!
Oh God, and what if a marriage is involved ?
You spend half of the day, half of your life with one person that is not your husband or wife, but that you feel so attracted to: emotionally and sometime even physically (some say that there is always a physical attraction in the beginning). Read more:office
Uncover a cheater now ! 2007-05-12 19:22:21 Do you know someone who’s cheating your friend, but you don’t have the guts to tell him/her or you’re just concerned he/she might suffer.
But what would you prefer if you were in his/her shoes ?
Would you like to know if your lover is cheating you, would you appreciate that someone is telling you the truth without having any hard feelings for that person ?
Would you help your friend if you could inform him/her about the situation in an anonymously way ?
Now you can do it, completely anonymously and in a very professional and effective way.
You can take advantage of Love Cheaters Reporting Service - just send us a picture, a record, a story, an evidence at the email below and I will forward this for you to your friend (do not forget to include the email address of your cheated friend).
Send it to report.cheater@love-cheaters.com and I’ll gently take care of the rest !
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Welcome Love Cheaters 2007-05-12 07:19:56 Have you ever cheated your partner ? I am so curios if there is anyone there who hasn’t or maybe who won’t ever do it.
What should we call “cheating” - would “innocent” things like a kiss, chatting over the Internet, a touch should be included; or is it only sex that matters; or maybe regular dating.
Is there any difference between a cheater who had a one-night-stand and a cheater having regular dating with someone else ?
Personally, I don’t know - I hope I’ll find out while writing this blog.In many situations, I have cheated my girlfriends too. I could say (a little bit proudly) that I have quite enough experience to write about cheating and, to be honest, it is always a pleasure to refresh such memories. I think it makes me feel very masculin, a real man. But I’m wondering what women think about this - do they feel the same ?To get back to this blog, I have already in mind what I will be writing in my next posts - I have so many Read more:Welcome
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Waiting to be free 2007-06-17 11:49:21 Few days ago, I had a chat with one of my colleagues at the office. He was telling me a story about a very attractive woman, the mistress of his boss, that drove him crazy with her nonchalant attitude.
I did not fear to show to my colleague that I liked and was very impressed by his story, but I did not tell him the true reason of that. He was actually very proud of having that woman in bed with him as soon as she broke up with his boss: he was flirting with her whenever she got into the office to visit her lover (the boss) and when he found out they were not together anymore, he took her out. What “moved” me so much is that, in the meantime, we was offering his shoulder to his poor boss suffering for losing the “restless lady” (the boss was very in love with her, but she was only after his money).
Actually, the reason I was so deeply moved by his story is that it somehow happened to me too, very long time ago… The difference is that in the story it was n Read more:Waiting
Cheating in bed 2007-06-28 08:31:26 She was lying in bed with her husband in her arms. I was lying down right next to her husband (an old good friend of mine), trying to get asleep. Suddenly I felt a smooth touch on my face. I opened my eyes and saw her glancing at me. Her look was burning, so full of passion and secret thoughts.
I wondered for a second if she touched my face from mistake or if she did it on purpose. I’ve got my answer almost instantly when she touched me again, this time longer and with that look in her eyes. I was shocked, thrilled, excited. My heart was beating fast, my cheeks were full of blood, my eyes were wide open in the dark, trying to catch a sign on her face, what was in her mind ?
And all this time, my good friend was enjoying his peaceful sleep .
His dear wife was flirting with me and caressing me with her hands around her husband’s neck. Honestly, I did not know how to react. But, the moment was so intense, so .. dangerous, so.. unforgettable… It was so difficult to resis Read more:Cheating
The feeling of being cheated 2007-07-20 12:12:22 Yesterday I had a powerful feeling that I am cheated.
And it was not nice. I was trying to get all those thoughts out of my mind while making fun of myself: “how can I think of that?!?” - I was saying.. But the thoughts were coming back, again and again.. with more power and a hurting feeling. An empty space seemed to open in my stomach and my head was burning.
When you have such feelings you are so tempted to do (or you start doing) crazy things, just to find out if your suspicions are true or not. You embarrass yourself, you humiliate yourself, you do things you would have swore you’ll never ever do.
So, me too, I did a stupid, but maybe in the end, efficient thing - I followed her to see if what she had said was true (she said she will go out with her girl friends only, .. by taxi) . And yes, she was getting out with her girl friends, but not by taxi (some guy pick her up) and not only with girls..
Actually I didn’t get any obvious proof of love cheating, but
My best friend tries my girlfriend 2007-08-09 15:02:01 Some time ago, I was in a quite long trip across Europe, away from my country and town. I left home my girl, sad and alone, but I kept my feelings for her in my heart. And she did the same.
I was writing her every week, I was calling her every two days. We seem to go over this difficult period very well and with much hope.
In the mean time, I was keeping in contact with my friend
s too and especially with one of them who I believed I can trust the most - he was the so called “best friend
”. We did a lot of crazy stuff together: we went out together with girls that were friends then we cheated them together and a lot of things like that. I always thought he will never betray me, cause I knew I wouldn’t do that to him neither.
But now, after some time since I got back home and took back my girl, I had the surprise to find out that my good friend here was so kind and tried to prove to my girlfriend that I have cheated her too. And in a way or another he succeeded. But I w Read more:tries
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Smelling your bed 2007-09-22 13:18:02 I realized today that I was smelling my bed looking for some cheating signs. I was looking for an usual smell, for a sign, a piece of hair or maybe a spot. Everything was clean and then I relaxed.
Why did I do this ?
First, because I remember how my bed was after a passionate love [...]
Difficult questions in love 2007-08-20 12:17:32 Few days ago, my girlfriend asked me if I would cheat her with a very attractive woman, in the case I would have that opportunity. I did not know what to answer - it was a strange and powerful question.
If this will happen to me, I would not even think twice about it (at [...] Read more:questions
Software for Love Cheaters 2008-03-15 17:41:55 It happens to me to work in the software industry.
It happens to me know some people suffering of being cheated by their partners. Even though they suspect things, they still don’t have any proof - that would help a lot to clarify their continous heart ake. They need to know - is their suspicion real [...] Read more:Software
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Signs of cheating - false positives - part 1 2008-03-23 17:10:28 Recently, I’ve read some topics on other similar blogs with mine, about cheating in love. Easy to notice that the majority of them are mentioning somehow about the recognizable signs of cheating, the symptoms of those who cheat their partner.
Some of these articles are really good and seem to be helpful for the desperate people [...] Read more:false
She was not wearing the ring 2008-05-02 17:38:15 I met her and liked her from the day 1.
I was absolutely sure she likes me too from the way she was smiling at me, from the way she was slipping her hand on my hand with a very discreet and gentle gesture. And she was also beautiful and so attractive woman: delicate big brown [...] Read more:wearing