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The Tender First Kiss 2007-05-09 10:38:00 Congratulations..!!!On getting your First
Kiss.Kissing is a truly refreshing and wonderful experience. That is if you don’t have sweaty palms, nervous twitches or bad breadth. The first two can be easily overcome, but the third… You need not be hyper about kissing him/her for the first time. Just relax. It is a heady experience and you are right on top of the world. To make you feel a bit more confident and help you get it right here are a few do’s and don’ts.• Be confident. You are going to kiss a person you like... so make it enjoyable. Remember you need not be tensed about it.• Just RELAX. Let go of your worries and nervousness. If you want to feel that moment you need to be relaxed.• Do not compete for stamina and keep your lips glued. Kiss till you get a response from him. Then ease off gently. This will make him pine for more and you’ve started to rock. But take care not to pull out abruptly. It can be a major turn off.• Look at him/her when you kiss. It proves Read more:Tender
Choosing A Life Partner? 2007-05-11 11:15:00 People talk about love at first sight. More often than not it is lust that people mistake for love. True love doesn't come all that easily. One has to constantly work towards building a relationship. One has to get to know the person, accept him for what he is and then if you still feel the same towards that one special person, then you can assure yourself that you have indeed found love, true love! CHOOSING A LIFE PARTNER?There is no get it right formula for choosing a life partner. But here are some of the issues you should look at:• Do you vibe well? It is not necessary that both partners should have the same likes and dislikes, but they should be able to get along very well.• Are you able to understand each other and empathise with each others problems.• Weigh expectations from each other, and make sure that neither has strong delusions.• Mutual honesty is a must (not that one has to confess everything that happened in the past, but there should be a fair degree of openne Read more:Partner
Successful Dating 2007-05-10 12:56:00 Dating affects us all. Being single isn't easy, whatever anyone says, and its always nice to read about other people's views on the dating game.The truth is, there are no magic formulas, no perfect tricks of the trade, no cunning ways of trapping Mr. or Miss Right and no top dating tips that wave a magic wand. But there are some essential facts that you should always bear in mind along the way. Dating tips are just that - tips, they are not promises written in stone and different things will always work differently for different people. However, I have noticed that there are some threads of advice that prove to very helpful...1. Get prepared for dating. If you really want to succeed in the dating game, decide who you are looking for, do your research and be ready to commit to dating. Half heartedness won't work.2. Get your act together. Begin a regime of looking your best. Join a gym, read health magazines, get fit and start a diet. The idea is to feel a million times more confident Read more:Dating
Breaking Up A Relation 2007-05-14 12:49:00 It Is Okay To Break UpIf you are getting restless or bored in a relationship give it a little break before completely breaking up. This is just to make sure that you really want to get out of the relationship and also helps to break the news to him, as he might start wondering about these phases of staying apart. If even after the little break you aren’t really dying to see him again play it straight. Explain that you are not interested any more. The sooner you do this the better. The bottom line is: All's fair in love and war. If you see nothing in a relationship, there's no point in staying in it. You're doing both of yourselves a favor.Be Kind When Dumping ...Many of us make the mistake of getting into a relationship that, after a few months, doesn’t appear to have a future. If you’re sure that this isn’t the guy you want to spend the rest of your life with, the quicker you get rid of him, the better. You may find him irritating or obnoxious, but don’t forget that even Read more:Breaking
Together You and I 2007-05-13 14:57:00 Together you and Ican reach stars in the sky,Together you and Ican touch rainbows if we try.Together you and Ican make the moon smile,together you and Imake heaven seem like a mile.Together you and Ican make the rain fall,Because our love is specialand together we have it all.affairromancelovelove poem
5 brilliant steps to a Successful Relationship 2007-05-12 12:36:00 There are always going to be rocky patches in any relationship. Here's some help to get you through the tough times.1. Talk. Lots. And often. It might seem like a cliche, but communication is key.2. Choose your battles. Think carefully about the things that really do upset you before you rush headfirst into an argument, rather than picking on every teeny tiny irritating thing.3. Learn how to say sorry. It's an important part of moving on after an argument, and making up can be a real bonus in more ways than one!4. Play together, stay together. Plan activities that you both enjoy. Take time together, without distraction, as often as you are able.5. Maintain a physical relationship. You might not be shagging like bunnies but be sure to share lots of kisses and cuddles. Sex is a very strong glue and many say it is the key to a healthy, sustainable relationship.affairkisslifeloverelationshipromancesex Read more:steps
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Make Love Not War 2007-05-17 11:55:00 In most relationships, when you just start dating, things seem to be heavenly. But after a while (especially after you just get married) you might find that you are fighting all the time. Yet, you can't let go. The problem is that you love him a lot, it's just that you hate the fights. Don't worry. If you don’t and proudly proclaim so then maybe you need to rethink a bit. Couples who fight a lot have a ball of time making up. Yes, there’s a lot of emotion involved but at the end there’s deep love which surfaces.Firstly, you need to know that it’s perfectly ok to have a fight. When you just fall in love, you are blinded to the negative sides of your lover. But as the love settles down, these qualities--habits, attitudes, behaviour, etc.--become apparent. This is because when you just fall in love both of you tend to agree on everything, because you do not want to lose one another.But when the love becomes secure, both of you are now ready to voice your opinions. That’s how
LOVE & HATE 2007-05-24 08:01:00 The Futility Of Hate:Hate is a negative emotion. It consumes the world and everyone who is a part of it. It is the evil that destroys the person from whom it emanates before reaching the person who it is meant for. Hate can never counter hate, it will only add to it. Hateful thoughts are harmful to the body and mind. They destroy our equilibrium and make us lose focus. After your death your words of love and kindness shall act like beacons to those you leave behind. Would you rather not leave behind lasting memories of happiness and love than those of hate and despairLOVE: The Great UnifierLove is a great healer.• It can set past wrongs right and pave the path to unbridled happiness.• Loving comes naturally to all humans, after all we are a product of compassion and kindness that emanates from the Guiding Light that breathed life into us.• To be able to love without bounds, without expectations and want is to have truly loved.• But remember loving is giving away a part of you
What does a woman look for in a man? 2007-06-02 05:51:00 Ways to score points with a woman
:It’s amazing how many men do the wrong things -- they of course think they’re doing the right stuff -- in their bid to attract women. Here are some surefire ways to score points with a woman. Check them out.• When she starts talking to you, put down the magazine or shut off the TV (in other words, stop doing whatever you were at that time) and give her your full attention -- for at least 20 minutes.• Offer to help her if she’s tired.• Compliment her on how she looks.• Plan a date several days in advance rather than just a few hours before.• Notice how she is feeling and comment on it. It could be: “You look happy today,” or “You look tired.”• Let her know that you missed her when she was away.Learn to listen: A woman’s pet crib is that the man she’s with just doesn’t listen to her. She isn’t wrong. If a woman has a problem, the man will gallantly step forward with a solution -- even though he hasn’t finished hearing
A Stranger In Paradise 2007-05-30 05:30:00 I'm a stranger in lovely Paradise
,With out the love of your embrace;Listening to birds sing love songs,Leaves me feeling so out of place.I wish you could be here with me,Come to me darling, take my hand;I need you here forever by my side,Let us unite in this Paradise land.I want your arms to hold me tight,Feeling your heart beat against mine;Whisper love words to me tonight,Kiss my lips with desire so divine.I am a lost stranger here in Paradise,End my loneliness, my darling true;In a land meant for lovers to share,Come to Paradise where I wait for you.affairlovelove poemparadiseromancestranger Read more:Stranger
The Rules For One Night Stands 2007-06-14 05:36:00 Loneliness can lead people into strange bonds and unknown alleys of life. It makes them so desperate that they knowingly walk into frivolous affairs for a night, called “one-night stands”, to feel loved for a single night. If you’re an adult and choose to opt for a ‘no strings attached’ relationship, it is perfectly fine. But do remember that this comes with some responsibilities you must shoulder.Here are 5 essential precautions that you must observe for your very own safety.1. Take appropriate protectionYou don’t want to be punished forever for one fun-filled night, so be alert and take precautions. Make this a rule to never ever jump into the act without taking proper protection. Pills don’t work always so insist on the guy wearing a condom. If the guy refuses on wearing a condom, get out of there fast. It’s not worth the fun at all.2. Be sure of what you want and inform your partnerBefore you get into something, ensure that you have the capability to get in and out Read more:Rules
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Concept Behind Online Dating 2007-06-19 02:50:00 You could be smart or sloppy. You could ooze sensuality and wit; you could be poetic and sensitive. You could be the proverbial introvert. You could be intelligent. You could be anything and everything under the sun.You could be severely eligible. And yet you maybe single.Maybe you haven’t met someone who mentally, intellectually, physically and emotionally (is that to much to ask for?) stimulates you in ages. Maybe you live in a metro. Maybe time is a constraint and the opportunities to socialize and ‘meet’ potential romantic interests are on the wane. And you might be smothered with lots of doubts like –‘Is there something wrong with me? Am I boring? What can I do to improve my romantic prospects? Arranged marriage…yikes!’Well, banish those thoughts. You share a common predicament with millions across the globe. So what can you do to find a touch of chemistry in this crazy world of today? If conventional methods aren’t helping, then maybe you could resort to more inno Read more:Concept
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How To Meet Online Love? 2007-06-18 06:41:00 There’s nothing to be scared of because online romances often culminate into lifelong partnerships these days. However, when taking the plunge these tips can be taken in mind.Meet when YOU are ready and if you feel inclined enough! You are never obliged to meet anyone no matter how comfortable you get over the net. However, don’t unnecessarily lead somebody on. Why bother with the effort if you just want to tease?Location-wise: Be wise when it comes to the choice of venue. Don’t allow your date to pick you up at home. What if he turns out to be a stalker? Any public space like a restaurant or a café is a sound option. Don’t forget to inform a close friend about your rendezvous plans and leave your date's name and telephone number with that person.While traveling a longer distance: If the object of your affection is overseas or from another state and you are flying in or driving from another area, arrange for your own car and a hotel room. Always make sure a friend or family m
Romance In The Internet Era 2007-06-23 04:44:00 It’s the era of internet romance and virtual kisses. If you’ve already jumped onto that wagon check out these simple do's and don'ts that could make online dating a fulfilling and exciting experience.Since you do not have the benefits of observing body language, facial expressions and mannerisms through this medium, you need to keep certain things in mind when communicating in cyberspace. We have listed some dos and don’ts that go a long way.• Be crystal clear when expressing your intentions, thoughts and expectations. Honesty is the name of the game.• Remember, the other person has feelings too and respect them.• Sarcasm and wit should be expressed with care so as not to violate anyone’s sensibilities. Sometimes though, these two elements can serve To spice up your net interaction!• Use acronyms sparingly as they can sometime be putting off, if used too often.• Try clicking the emoticons to express emotions like love, humour, anger etc. It could brighten anyone’s Read more:Romance
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Chemistry Behind Love 2007-06-28 08:03:00 Love is as much a hormonal issue as is an emotional one. Ever wondered why you blush and go weak-kneed while meeting your special other? Why does the person appear sexy and attractive after a few interactions? As much as it is a mind game, the body and hormones too play a major role in deciding our love lives. Here is how…• The weak-kneed reaction is triggered by an overdose of a chemical called phenylethylamine (PEA). Popularly known as the love molecule this one is found in the brain and has high levels of nitrogen. Chocolates are also known to trigger off PEA secretion…• The weak-kneed reaction is usually followed by lust which is triggered by testosterone, the male hormone. Body’s secretion of hormone shoots up when the mind is in love.• Sweaty palms are a result of increased blood pressure or adrenaline rush. This leads to fastened heart rate, heavy breathing and blushing. An excess intake of oxygen is the reason behind the giddy, light headed feeling.• Adrenaline an
Men Love The Mysterious Woman 2007-06-26 05:47:00 A woman is known for her mysterious side. A secret which every man dreams to uncover. It is said that you “never understand a woman” and this is the only thing which pulls a man towards her. Her secrets, her unpredictable nature, her sobs which often bursts into a series of laughter is always a puzzle for the man who aspires to solve it one day. Let us see how you can use this mysterious side of yours into a treasure hunt for your man, laying a trail which can definitely unlock the secrets of your heart. It’s your key to getting your partner more interested in you.Creating an impressionWhat could be a better colour for our "secret lady" than a dress in black. Apply a dash of mascara with a silver lining or smoky grey eye shadow leaving behind a dusky effect for your eyes to narrate a tale which was never told to him.Wear a dress which is not so revealing yet it conceals the contours of your body in a perfect manner that sets off a trail of imagination.Talking secretsSpeak to him
Is Love Enough? 2007-07-01 08:13:00 Sometimes, even if two people love each other, they may not be right for each other. Sounds like a contradiction? Not really. Our society assumes that if two people are in love, they should get married. But then what happens after marriage? In many cases, it becomes difficult to spot that love.Sure, love is definitely needed for a lasting relationship. But what we’re saying is that love is no guarantee that a person is right for us. The problems start when we try to make each other right. Either we change ourselves too much (to meet our partner’s needs) or our partners change themselves too much. And eventually we stop liking who we have become.So, instead of becoming more loving, we just stop growing -- and instead of the relationship bringing out the best in us it brings out the worst. So, along with love remember that you also have to ensure that for marriage you need to find a person who is "right" for you. Read more:Enough
Going On A Blind Date 2007-07-09 04:06:00 The Internet has emerged as a hot new dating joint for the smart, eligible lot. Increasingly, people of almost all ages are swarming into cyberspace looking for love and romance. Meeting up with such virtual strangers has given a new meaning to blind dating. Although, you have nothing to lose from this, adequate care must be taken in order to be safe. So, it’s time to charge your grey cells and become alert and aware before you decide to meet that "seemingly charming" guy.Screening Your Date:1. Watch out for a guy who seems too good to be true. The reality could be quite the opposite.2. Don't rush into anything. Take time to find out who the guy really is. If anything feels strange as you get to know him, then it is time to back away.3. If you decide to meet for a date, arrange the meeting on your terms.4. Get as much information as you can about him.5. Always ask for his full name, address and telephone number before agreeing to go out.6. Find out where the guy works, and whether y Read more:Going
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Single And Alone - Take It Easy !! 2007-07-07 03:38:00 If you are a young girl staying and working on your own in a city, it’s likely for you to feel lonely sometimes. Your heart might reach out to seek company but keep a check on where its going because as a single girl staying independently you are the most desirable catch for any guy looking for some quick fun.Be alert and be smart-Guys looking for some instant fun deliberately concentrate on single girls staying independently because such girls usually have no restrictions and are often emotionally vulnerable. Here are some Play Safe- Date Safe- Stay Safe tips to help you lead a smooth life.Safe Playing:If you are open to flings, one night stands, no strings attached relationships or casual sex, then being frivolous might work for you, but even then, ensuring that you don’t attract trouble is important.1. Be aware of the repercussions the choice of such a lifestyle can bring. It can wreck havoc on your reputation and can even make you the attraction point of just about anyone looki
How to Turn a Friend into a Lover? 2007-07-12 02:15:00 When two people are in a relationship, they need to share a certain level of compatibility that extends beyond the bedroom. Besides getting along as lovers, they need to be friends, in order to share each other's joy and sorrow and be on the same wavelength, mentally and emotionally. Friends, who are close to each other, tend to have that kind of emotional and mental connection, which is why the friendship is shared in the first place. Imagine if you could find that kind of compatibility in a lover as well! Read on...Remind them of what they likeIf you have a male friend, who have hinted in the past about what he likes in you - certain physical or emotional characterstics that you possess - learn to highlight those features. Just don't go overboard.Remember, that when you were friends, how you looked or felt didn't matter because he would love you nonetheless. But, when it comes to love, you need to present yourself in a way that will make him notice.Change the talkWhen people are f
How To Get His Attention? 2007-07-11 07:17:00 Did you know that men actually love it when you flirt with them? You would have to keep it a wee bit subtle no doubt, but I definitely would recommend giving them clues when you find them attractive. Here are some tips on how to behave in the company of men especially in a group…• If a guy doesn’t respond to your cue the first time, remember that men are slow to notice a woman’s interest. You may need to give them at least 3 cues before they get the hint. Firstly, it will take him a few second to realize that you are flirting with him and not his friends. The second time, when he knows it's him, he will flush a bit and feel extremely pleased with the attention. The third time you can express interest he will actually open up and reciprocate your cues provided he’s interested of course. Remember; if he snubs you do not feel disheartened. He obviously isn’t worth the attention.• Whisper, it always gets his interest. It also makes you look slightly vulnerable and this quali
Women Are Different From Men 2007-07-16 04:36:00 Falling in love is easy. Making it last is not. We tend to believe that once we fall in love, that magical feeling is eternal and will last forever. Unfortunately, it’s not that simple. John Gray, in his book, Men are from Mars, Women
are from Venus, says that “each year millions of couples join together in love and then painfully separate because they have lost that loving feeling. From those who are able to sustain love long enough to get married, only 50% stay married. Out of those who stay together, possibly another 50% are not fulfilled. They stay together out of loyalty and obligation or from the fear of starting all over.”According to Gray, very few people are able to grow in love. And the reason is simple. As the initial magical feeling reduces, daily life (work, salaries, bills, kids) takes over. And even as these changes start happening, MEN CONTINUE TO EXPECT WOMEN TO THINK AND REACT LIKE MEN. They are unaware of the difference between a man and a woman. And when you a
The Right Time To Ask Her Out 2007-07-15 02:08:00 Here’s something that men should know about women: when a woman meets a new man, she sizes him up in an instant. She will have noticed the way he walks, talks, moves and interacts with her and everyone in the vicinity. In fact, by the time he asks for her number, she will have already decided whether or not she will say yes or no!In other words, if this new chap appears to be at least somewhat compatible with her, she will be a wee bit attracted to him at least. Besides the compatibility factor, the fact that he is a ‘fresh catch’ also makes him quite appealing in her eyes.Unfortunately, once he senses the vibes from her he will ponder for days, weeks and months about whether he should ask her out. He fears rejection, commitment or some other relationship phobia. But once he finally moves in for the kill, she will have gotten the idea that he is just not interested and will have moved on.Sad ending, right? Well it doesn’t have to be that way. The moral of this story is that you Read more:Right
Are You Passionate Enough? 2007-07-17 08:26:00 Did passionate affairs exist only in The Titanic? Do men really search for deep-rooted love or is it a fleeting emotion? Passion and men!!! That comes to play only when cars go in a dizzy play at the Grand Prix or Brazil takes on Argentina in the Soccer finals or Tendulkar smashes a century. The emotion seems to have set sail for good from the love coast! So where has all the passion gone? Definitely out of the relation!Why is love taking a beating when it comes to passion (no we are not taking into account jilted lovers and the sad scenes they create)? Why aren't men as lovelorn (they were portrayed as that at least) as they once were? Where are the passionate -I love you's?Probably it is the hectic pace of city life and demanding times that keep us from professing love in all earnestness, probably it is the pressures of working life that now dominate an area that was earlier reserved for romantic talk, or probably we have just become very unromantic.The causes are many and diverse, Read more:Enough
The Joy Of Intimacy 2007-07-20 08:03:00 Everywhere around us, we see the one-night stand culture – relationships with no strings attached. ‘It's convenient that way' is what many say. What they don't know is that emotional intimacy is one of the most wonderful experiences we ever have. Nothing else really comes close to the experience of sharing our deepest thoughts and feelings with another, of being deeply seen and known, of sharing love, passion, laughter, joy, and/or creativity. The experience of intimacy fills our souls and takes away our loneliness.A wounded or shattered sense of self may interfere with your capacity for intimacy. When we fear abandonment we may try to stay glued onto another. We may seek to preserve the illusion of intimacy but, in truth, maintain a distance that prevents us from the vulnerability of intimacy.Many people have two major fears that may cause them to avoid intimacy: the fear of rejection - of losing the other person, and the fear of engulfment - of being invaded, of being controll
The Magic Of Touch 2007-07-19 07:36:00 There is no such thing as too much intimacy. Any relationship blooms to its maximum potential when quiet, simple yet delightful pleasures are experienced. This also brings with it a sense of excitement.One such pleasure is that of touch. When you touch your partner it sends out positive signals like I love you and I care for you. It is a medium of expressing warm, true and intense affection and caring. It provides a great deal of comfort.Touching enlivens our lives. It nurtures our relationships. The gift of touch contains within it the miracle of healing and bonding. Touch is a means of connecting emotionally, physically and spiritually. Read more:Magic
Is "She" Cheating On You? 2007-07-23 04:49:00 A woman may cheat when something inside her creates a desire to go outside her existing relationship, and this could happen for several reasons ranging from the nature of her relationship to her genes, your behaviour towards her, circumstances and her personality. But what you need to know is that is it about you or is it about her, that makes her cheat or could lead her towards straying.Yes, the person whom you treated as an extension of your being could also betray you. So figure what is going on. Know she is straying if…• Her whereabouts are unaccounted for and/or she has several unexpected meetings with people you don't know.• Sudden nondescript "emergencies" are putting you and your needs on the back burner.• She is always finding excuses to be away from you.• She is rarely in a mood for sex and hardly ever wants to try something new with you.• Even if sex happens, it is different and not as intense as before.• Her brief kisses and even briefer phone conversations h Read more:Cheating
Unravelling "Women-Speak" 2007-07-22 02:07:00 Ever wondered what silent but strong femme talk is all about? Let us share some of "classified" knowledge:• If the lady listens to you but refuses to reveal her true desires and intention, probably you could try a go-between. How about asking a common friend to play cupid?• She meets you once, and the next time you propose, she not only agrees wholeheartedly, but is better dressed and groomed than before. Come on, you don't need us to tell you what that means?! Of course, she is more than interested in you!• The lady seems to have taken a keen interest in you, but will not consent to her love interest…know what that means? She wants to be wooed with diamonds and roses! Take the cue, this one is more demanding than you thought!• When the lady refuses to pay attention to you, probably because of her respect for you, or for herself, you still stand a fair chance of winning her over. Persuasion, once again is the handy tool!• The lady reproaches you strongly for harbouring lov Read more:Women
Can Beautiful Women Be Trusted? 2007-07-21 06:24:00 Insecurity is the most dangerous thing that can tear any relationship apart. Most men start assuming that a beautiful woman cannot be trusted. You need to get a grip on your own insecurities. Learn to trust.“Beautiful
women know that they have many takers and if their current guy does not mend his ways as per theirs, they just move on to the next best option. The knowledge that they are in demand invariably puts them in the driving seat in a relationship. They don’t believe in building a relationship based on trust but instead treat men as merely sources of convenience who fulfill their needs. And if you are with such a drop dead beauty then it is anyway more out of lust than love; how faithful she will prove to be is absolutely questionable.”Review the situation...If your babe uses her hot looks to climb the ladder of success and treats you like a slave because she is hot and you are not…If she has the habit of straying and then coming back you to because she knows that she is Read more:Women
How to Fall in Love Again? 2007-07-25 05:07:00 “Love makes the world go round” never has this adage needed more stress than in this age of cyber relationships. Your mate is the most special and most important person in your life. He/She contribute largely to your mental as well as physical well being. And having that special someone to share moments with is really something to long for.• It doesn’t matter if you are 10 years into your marriage or 3 years dating steadily. You need to rekindle and spark your relationship with your partner. Before you contemplate on doing so allow us to guide you with a few pointers…• Remember to look good. The chances of romancing and wooing are significantly better if you didn’t look like a cabbage or pouted a beer belly.Court again. Do what you did to woo your mate and this time add the flavour of togetherness.• Remember your first days of togetherness? There is no better way of sparking off the flame than remembering you first fun times together. Now try to do something that you en Read more:Again
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