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Life Coaching Principles of Self Mastery / Part 2: Acceptance 2008-10-30 10:17:00 "We cannot change anything until we accept it.
Condemnation does not liberate, it oppresses."
(C.G. Jung)
The second principle of self mastery might present the greatest challenge at first. Yet, in the end it could well deliver the greatest gift of all.
Accepting WHAT IS!
We are who we are. We do what we do, and we do the best we can in any given moment, based on the beliefs we hold. Read more:Acceptance
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Life Coaching Principles of Self Mastery / Part 1: Awareness 2008-10-29 13:55:00 "One can have no smaller or greater mastery than mastery of oneself."
(Leonardo da Vinci)
The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines the word mastery as the skill or knowledge that makes one master of a subject.
Self mastery then is the skill or knowledge that makes you a master of your own life. It gives you a deeper understanding of your own thoughts, beliefs, feelings, emotions and actio Read more:Awareness
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Celebrate Your Life 2008-10-29 06:43:00 Today is the first day of the rest of your life!
Give yourself permission to …
embrace being here, walk in the rain, savor magic moments, understand others even when you don't agree with them, smell flowers, hold hands, raise the bar, make pumpkin soup, listen to the wisdom of children, celebrate success, daydream, simplify your life, watch the moon and stars come out, say hello to everyon Read more:Celebrate
Authentic Leadership 2008-10-25 09:04:00 The leadership challenges we’re facing today in our social, political and economic world are not so much about competency, as they are about integrity and character. This causes skepticism and distrust amongst many of us.
We focus a lot of attention and waste a lot of media coverage on political, social and religious celebrity-like leaders. There is something in the human psyche that longs Read more:Authentic
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Going Home 2008-10-19 10:57:00 "We travel the world in search of what we need, and return home to find it."
I'm getting ready to return "home" to visit with family and friends. I'll be staying at a beautiful place called "Koningsteen", a wellness and training center in the heart of Belgium. My mother started this center over 10 years ago and my brother Steven is now running the day to da Read more:Going
Life Coaching and The Inner Game 2008-10-18 15:56:00 In his book "The Inner Game of Tennis", Timothy Gallwey focuses on the game that's in the mind of each player. According to Gallwey, performance equals potential minus interference.
A tennis player faces two types of interferences. One is the outer opponent on the court, the other is the inner opponent in his or her mind. More often than not, the inner opponent is the tougher o
Life Coaching Observations on The Sounds of Silence 2008-10-18 14:10:00 Do you ever listen to the sounds of silence? Do you provide time in your life to quiet down the constant chatter in your mind?
Visualize for a moment a beautiful lake in the mountains, and imagine looking into the water, watching a reflection of yourself. This image of you will be undistorted because the water is calm and still. It is only in quiet waters that things mirror themselves undistorted Read more:Sounds
Business Coaching: "The BIG 10 Questions That Could Change Your Business" 2008-10-17 14:42:00 Successful organizations understand that the key to increased productivity and profitability lies in the ongoing professional and personal development of people.
These companies create an environment where people can grow, develop their unique talents and align their values with a corporate vision.
Your answers to the following 10 questions might illuminate some areas for improvement.
What i Read more:Business
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A Time to Reflect 2008-10-16 07:23:00 During this magnificent fall season, trees let go of their leaves in order to restore balance and prepare for new growth in the spring. Do you ever wonder about the incomprehensible power of life that brings them back every spring?
The fall is also a time to reflect, a time to appreciate and to remember. The fall is nature's way of inviting us to restore balance, nurture the soul and feel gratefu
More exposure at Blogcatalog.com 2008-10-15 06:57:00 My webmaster and programmer, Larry Mrazek, of LCM Research - a St. Louis based company that helps companies manage and develop web, ecommerce, database and market research projects - advised me to submit my life and business coaching blog to the social blogger community at Blogcatalog.com
It's one of the larger Blogger communities on the web and they just launched a new search engi
A Different Perspective In Times of Change 2008-10-09 13:48:00 In times of change and adversity, we are all challenged to make choices and to make decisions. You may not be responsible for the circumstances or changes, like the breakdown of our financial system, but you are responsible for the decisions you make within those circumstances.
During his inaugural speech in January of 1961 John Kennedy said, “Ask not what your country can do for you. Ask w Read more:Change
, Perspective
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Don't Make Assumptions 2008-10-07 08:06:00 Do you ever make assumptions based on what you think you know will likely happen? Do you ever get caught up in the habit of predicting things?
One of the reasons we make assumptions is because we have a constant desire to explain things, so they fit within our personal view of life. We like to explain things based on what we know, and what we know is influenced by our experiences, opinions and be
Work That Matters 2008-10-03 19:38:00 I believe we should all do work that matters. Today, we all put in too many hours, and accumulate too much stress, to work at something that isn't personally engaging and rewarding.Too many people stay in unsatisfying and unfulfilling jobs, simply because it provides the material definition of success. All too often, our sense of who we are is defined by the work we do.
More and more people
Welcome change as an opportunity to grow. 2008-10-02 15:46:00 The most important tool we have to increase our productivity and personal effectiveness in times of change is our mind. When we encounter change, the most intuitive reaction is to search for danger or to look for problems. We go into survival mode, because this is what we have conditioned our mind to do.
The problem is that we get stuck into this negative state of mind and very quickly our perfor Read more:Welcome
The Classical Dilemma Between the Head and The Heart 2008-09-30 17:06:00 Have you ever been told: "You know you can do it!", or "All it takes it takes is willpower and discipline", but for some reason you did not succeed in following through? Or have you ever caught yourself thinking, "I should have known better…", but you did it anyway? Do you ever wonder why?
The answer lies within one of the most fundamental human conflicts; the Read more:Heart
Setting Your Intent 2008-09-29 14:21:00 The word 'intent' comes from the Latin 'intendere', which means to “stretch forward.” When you set your intent, you are opening the doors to create the kinds of life experiences that you want to have.
Setting
your intent is about directing your focus in the present moment toward a future outcome. Because of the constantly changing environment of your life, setting your intent is an eve Read more:Intent
You Get What You Tolerate. 2008-09-26 15:23:00 What are the little things around your home that need minor repair, but for some reason you are tolerating them and are procrastinating to fix them?
Maybe it is squeaking door, a room that needs to be repainted, a loose drawer handle…. I'm sure you can think of many more. These could be minor things that you have learned to tolerate and put up with every day of your life. Think of them
Choose to be congruent rather than consistent. 2008-09-20 10:56:00 What does it mean to be congruent?
Congruency is derived from the Latin verb 'congruere', which means 'to meet together' or 'to agree'.
Being congruent is when, who you are (values and beliefs), what you say, and what you do is in agreement or harmony.
At a deeper level, personal congruency exists when your true desires (intention), your thoughts (attention), feelings and actions are aligned wit
The ROI of Passion. 2008-09-19 11:30:00 Is there a business case for cultivating and nourishing passion in your organization? Could passion really be a competitive advantage? Can passion make a difference in terms of accomplishing your business goals and objectives?
You'd better believe it!
Passion
is such an important ingredient in any recipe for success, but it is often overlooked when it comes to business success. Perhaps becau
Building Bridges 2008-09-15 16:15:00 In today's global and interconnected world, there is an urgent need to build bridges between people of different cultures, faith, traditions, and worldviews.
Building
bridges starts within your own circle of influence; your family and friends, your local community, your colleagues at work, etc.
The quality of your relationships is built upon your ability to communicate with others through genuine Read more:Bridges
Book Release: "Success is a State of Mind" 2008-09-14 17:23:00 Success is a State
of Mind
Building a Foundation for Your Future
Dieter Pauwels, a St. Louis based Life & Business Coach joins Deepak Chopra, Mark Victor Hansen & Les Brown in the new release of "Success is a State of Mind" - Building a Foundation for Your Future!
About the book:
Success does not have easily defined boundaries. It's as varied as t Read more:Release
, Success
Your Hidden Treasure 2008-09-14 16:46:00 In his book 'The Alchemist', Paulo Coelho tells the story of a young man named Santiago who had a dream and the courage to follow it. In it, Santiago set out on a quest to search for a hidden treasure that leads him to the pyramids of Egypt.
His convictions were continuously tested, but his persistence and courage won out. Through the trials he endured, by the end of this beautiful and inspiration Read more:Hidden
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Your True Potential 2008-09-14 15:48:00 "Until a person has been seen and blessed by another person, they don't yet fully exist." (Albert Camus)
When people talk and think about the word "potential", all too often they refer to one's unique capabilities, talents and strengths. I believe this offers us a limited perspective, because true potential can only be fostered at the level of identity, your own special way of Read more:Potential
Andean Awakening | A Return to the Essence 2008-09-07 08:27:00 It is said that a journey to Peru is a journey to re-connect with your authentic self.
Many people consider their trip to the sacred sites as a vital point in their lives.
Our travels took us to the power places of Cusco, Ollantaytambo, Sacred Valley, Moray and the sacred sites around Machu Picchu. We were lead in centuries of old Inca rituals and ceremonies.
Jorge Luis Delgado, Read more:Essence
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Business Coaching: How to Keep Employees Motivated During Tough Economic Times 2008-11-18 10:20:00 During uncertain economic times, many employees experience more anxiety about their future, more stress and declining attitudes. If you want to enhance their creativity, increase their productivity and personal engagement, follow these 4 business coaching tips to lead your employees through hard times.
1. Get them involved.
It is important to keep the lines of communication open and involve t Read more:Business
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Life Coaching Over the Phone: What Are The benefits? 2008-11-17 12:28:00 There are many advantages or benefits of coaching over the phone instead of an in office face-to-face coaching session. While I offer my coaching clients the option of both, let's consider some of the benefits telephone coaching has to offer.
Telephone coaching will get you the support and feedback you need for creating meaningful changes in your life and achieving the results you want
The Past Does Not Have To Equal The Future 2008-11-15 16:40:00 A wise man once said, "I can predict the future."
"Amazing!" The people shouted, "How can you do that?"
"It's easy", he said, "Most likely it will be a continuation of the present."
Even when the present is not what they would like it to be, most people choose to continue on the path they know. They follow the road that is familiar and perhaps co Read more:Equal
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What can the flow of a river teach us about life's experiences? 2008-11-14 07:10:00 A river always moves forward, setting its course and creating its own path down to the sea. At this place beginning and end all come together.
The life of a river is expressed in its flow, just as your life is a continuous flow of experiences
. A river's flow is powerful beyond measure. Even when it runs into obstacles, it finds a way past any resistance.
Just as a river, your life has a constant
Stress Management: 5 Tips To Release Stress In Your Life 2008-11-13 16:52:00
Stress affects us all in varying degrees. Whether your job is demanding, or you’re a single mother struggling to make ends meet, stress can add to the burden you already bear. Learning to manage stress is crucial if you want to live life to the fullest and maintain a healthy balance. Below you will find a few tips and techniques that will help you manage stress, and overcome your burdens.
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