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Q & A: "sharing my weekend with a chick he used to roll in the hay with"
2008-04-17 10:09:00
Q: I asked a girl some months ago if she would like to go for coffee and she said yes. But since that time we haven't been for coffee as she said she is busy, even those I have asked her yet again another number of times. Do you think I should ask her again only this time set a time and date or do I asked someone else out? - She Said Yes But…Dear She Said Yes But…Aren't you tired of waiting? Y
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Q & A: "Is he commitment phobic or did I just play my cards wrong?"
2008-04-17 10:03:00
Q: Would you believe a 50-year old woman could make such stupid mistakes? I met a man at work. We had an instant attraction and things went too fast. Three months later we were living together and talking a lot about marriage. He seemed to be crazy about me. Then things slowly started to fall apart. He has never been married or had a close relationship with a woman. He never said anything was wron


Q & A: "I'm not sure now if she is interested"
2008-04-17 09:56:00
Q: I have known for Josh 2 weeks now. My friend told him that I wanted to take him to the dance and then the next day he wrote me this note: "I am sorry but I already have a date for the dance, I did not think I would meet you. If we would have meet earlier, I might have asked you to the dance, that is if you wanted to go." What does his note mean? I know he likes me because he also said in the no


Q & A: "She keeps staring and looking me straight in the eyes"
2008-04-17 09:53:00
Q: You say give love? I gave and receive nothing except emotional pain. - Hurting Dear Hurting, I know how painful this time must be for you. Sometimes when we open our hearts, they get stomped on. But if you stop giving love, you'll never receive love. Close your fist for a moment. Pretend it is your heart. As long as it is closed, nothing can ever come in. Think of what your life would be like w
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Q & A: "Dating Woman with Kids"
2008-04-17 09:52:00
Q: Is it a good idea to date someone who has two kids as a result of a 10-year marriage? I have never been married.-Dating Woman with KidsDear Dating Woman with Kids,It's only a good idea if you like kids, and you can park your ego in order to open up your heart to children who have been fathered by someone other than you. Children are wonderful. Don't limit yourself, just because you don't have a


Q & A: "Is This Just About Sex?"
2008-04-17 09:49:00
Q: I have a little problem. There was this guy, who I used to say hi & have small talk with. Recently he said he would like the opportunity to know me better. Our first two encounters were cool, but then we had sex. The sex was so mind-blowing I really didn't care if he called me back or not (but you know secretly I really wanted him to call). A couple of days after our encounter I received a voic


Q & A: "He's Divorced I've Never Married"
2008-04-17 09:47:00
Q: I just got back from vacation yesterday. Last year I met this girl and we have kept in touch. Since she is at the same timeshare, we saw each other. I am starting to like her a lot. I always have but I haven't had the guts to tell her. She lives three hours away. I really want to tell her how I feel but I don't know how she will react. I think she likes me too. I want to be in a relationship wi
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Q & A: "boyfriend has been hanging out with his ex"
2008-04-16 17:21:00
Q: I met the man of my dreams over a year ago on a love personal. I had one on there and he answered my ad. We started talking and talked for about a month, then decided to meet. You know, meeting for the first time is always the most nervous part of it. We decided to meet for an early dinner. I suggested that if it didn't go we would only have to suffer 30 to 60 minutes. I have had ones before th
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Q & A: "she said, 'could we be just friends?'"
2008-04-16 17:18:00
Q: I asked this girl out on a date and she said yes when I asked her in person. She gave me her phone number and address. I called her the next day, but her mom made an excuse that she was sick, and before that, her mom took down my number to have her call me back. Unfortunately, I never heard from her. So is she trying to tell me no? Should I buy a get-well gift for her since she's sick to show I


Q & A: "I am so in love with this guy but I think he doesn't even notice me!"
2008-04-16 17:15:00
Q: I'm making a change in my life by staying sober. I had to let my sponsor go because she told me that I couldn't date for the first year of my sobriety. I thought that was a little old- fashioned. Do you think dating is okay for me or do you think she was right about not dating? -Staying SoberDear Staying Sober,Do you want to be right or be sober? Your sponsor has been where you've been and know
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Q & A: "I don't know what to say to her if I do see her alone"
2008-04-16 17:11:00
Q: I am a 24-year-old straight guy. I'm not seeing anybody at the moment, however I think I really love the woman I see often getting on the same bus as me. I can't speak to her, as she's always with her friend on the bus. And I don't know what to say to her if I do see her alone . Please help!-What Do I SayDear What Do I Say,I know you're shy and afraid of being rejected. Guess what? No one wants


Q & A: "man should be taller than the woman?"
2008-04-16 17:10:00
Q: I'm only 18 and the guy I've been on and off for a year and a half is right now confused on being with me or not? He says he likes me and wants to be with me but all I see is that he is always with his friends 24/7 and even blows me off for them, but at the same time he says he is confusedbut still likes me. So what should I do? Just give him some space and let him be with his friends or just m
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Q & A: "I am trying to get back my first love"
2008-04-16 17:09:00
Q: I wish to thank you enormously for sharing your wisdom in such a delicate (and complicated!) matter. I am 20 years old, beautiful, intelligent... but till not long ago, an alpha female. I just couldn't realize what I was doing wrong until I found your website and read your advices. At first, it seemed difficult (because of all those feminist ideas), but slowly I started to perform the metamorph


Q & A: "a bunch of old man chasing young women"
2008-04-16 17:09:00
Q: I live in New York City the worst place for personal relationships. I see a bunch of old man chasing young women and the ones in my age group, 46 don't want a relationship. They are just fine or I meet to drunks one and that is out of the question for me. What do I do? - Not Dating in New YorkDear Not Dating in New York,I know New York can be a tough city for relationships, but girlfriend, you


Q & A: "I was dumped by the man of my dreams"
2008-04-16 17:08:00
Q: I took your workshop last week and I want to share something. I went out to run errands and just got back. My first stop was the coffee shop to pick up a cup while I ran around. I remembered what you said in the workshop about how to walk and smile and just open up. So I did that. Nothing special happened at the coffee shop but I FELT WHAT YOU WERE TALKING ABOUT. It's so true. When I'm in my bo


Q & A: "cut off relations with him and tell him 'friends' don't have sex?"
2008-04-16 17:06:00
Q: My boyfriend of 2 ½ years just told me that he needs space. He won't tell me why, he just said that it has nothing to do with me, and that he needs time to hang around his friends. I tried to make him talk to me but that just seems to make things worse. The only thing that happens is that we end up in a fight because I am pushing him to talk to me. One day he says he misses me, the next day he
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Q & A: "I've made every mistake a woman could make in terms of attracting a man"
2008-04-16 17:05:00
Q: I think I've made every mistake a woman could make in terms of attracting a man. There's this guy I am interested on who I asked out last week. He said yes. I really blew the phone conversation when we talked before he left for a business trip (we were scheduled to get together after his trip). I made one mistake after another, showing off as an Alpha Female, then minimizing his ego when I foun


Q & A: "relationships never seem to work out for me"
2008-04-16 17:05:00
Q: I have a big problem - relationships never seem to work out for me. Every time without fail, it just never seems to work out. I have given my all, but it just hasn't worked out. Earlier this year I asked a girl I've known for a few years to go out with me. We had been sidestepping each other for a few months, and everyone could see that we were more than friends. The thing is she is really invo


Q & A: "A male friend of mine told me that I'm an alpha female"
2008-04-16 17:03:00
Q: A male friend of mine told me that I'm an alpha female and that I should check out your site. I would agree that I'm a strong person. I carry myself well. I'm confident, in control, athletic and independent. I wear jeans and I wear dresses and heels. I think I can be soft and sexy when I want to be, but for the most part I am in control and emotionally aggressive. I personally believe that I ha


Q & A: "I am checking my phone and email ever second for him to call"
2008-04-16 17:02:00
Q: About five years ago I met a wonderful guy. I was a 23-year old college student and he was a 26-year-old college graduate. Things were wonderful from the start until after he got a new job and moved to a new city over 100 miles away. We both visited each other the first three weeks, and then he abruptly broke up with me. Fast forward to today…after many counseling sessions and a few boyfriend
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Q & A: "How can I tell if a woman is going out with me just for my money?"
2008-04-16 17:00:00
Q: How can I tell if a woman is going out with me just for my money or for a free meal? - Confused MaleDear Confused Male,I'll answer your question but first here's a question for you. Are you looking for an arm charm (also known as a trophy woman) or a real gal you can have a relationship with? Here's a great story that should illustrate my point. A man comes to the gates of ancient Athens and as


Q & A: "How do you ask a girl out?"
2008-04-16 16:58:00
Q: I have just started dating a guy who works every single day, even on his day off. He calls me on a regular basis and is or seems to be a real gentleman. I am worried though that getting to know him is going to be much harder when he never takes a day off. What should I do to keep the relationship alive? Is this a pointless attempt to get with him?- Dating a WorkaholicDear Dating a Workaholic,If


Q & A: "exuding too many male characteristics"
2008-04-16 16:57:00
Q: I have scoured your website for tips and tools to change the way I approach relationships. I am 35 and have survived one divorce and the passing of another to cancer. I am in a relationship now that leaves me wondering what in the world is wrong with me. After realizing that I follow all the rules but one, I am now asking for your help. I guess that I have overcompensated in my life for things
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Q & A: "He is 10 years younger than me"
2008-04-16 16:56:00
Q: I'm currently friends with a guy who is really sweet. I've kissed him and given him hugs and he's given them back. He wants to fool around with me and then eventually wants to have sex with me one day. What do I do now? I've told him how I feel about this, but I don't know what to do now. - Looking for Help Dear Looking for Help,Have either of you thought about just taking the time to get to kn


Q & A: "How do I get a pretty girl to like me?"
2008-04-16 16:55:00
Q: I have read all of your letters & adore your advice. I have been "seeing" someone for 5 months. When I first saw him, there was an immediate attraction. We went out and he started calling me daily. He never asked me out for the weekends. After a few weeks, I talked with him about that issue. From the start, I should inform you, he told me that he didn't want anything serious right now. However,


Bedroom - Preparing The Love Nest
2008-11-27 16:48:00
You look and feel spectacular, so the next step is to prepare a riveting meeting space. You may think that he doesn't care about setting as long as he's getting you, but that's not completely true (Do you remember Ross from FRIENDS with the gorgeous woman in her rat-infested apartment?) The magic, excitement and thrill will start to seep away as soon as something becomes uncomfortable or falls apa
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Feet massage - massaging is relaxing you for sex
2008-11-27 16:44:00
Women all love to have their feet massaged, Its incredibly relaxing . It will be nice if he does this for you. Swap around so that one of the girls doesn’t get to do all the doing and not get “done” herself. Take turns in giving each others feet a good soft oily massage. Rub each others backs and shoulders, Proceed into oral sex from there and then when you are all very comfortable and relaxe


Sexual confidence and prowess
2008-11-27 16:42:00
Certainly it makes for a very mature approach to sexuality and will indeed produce a great deal of sensual pleasure for all concerned. It will take his understanding of sexuality and himself to new-found heights. Women have a great deal of sexual gravity and not all men will have the necessary confidence and sexual prowess to be able to hand two women at the same time. Some will, and may be coming
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The Shape Of Your Body, Your Face
2008-11-27 16:33:00
Thin. Fat and Big Bummed. Hourglass body shape. Busty. Well proportioned. Long necked. Short waist. Long waist. Flat abdomen. Paunchy abdomen. Long legged. Short legged. Stumpy. Tall. Small. Medium build.YOUR FACEThe truth is a man will want to have sex with most women if they are his type. His type is a pretty broad spectrum. Like he said, he is wired that way. He can be turned on by the idea of
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