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Can Your Sex Life Be Saved? (Part II) 2008-07-10 11:42:00 Can you live on biyearly trysts?To some people, infrequent sex is not a problem. Their reaction may be to shrug and ask, "So what?" And if they both agree, that's their business. But for most couples, the fact that you haven't been intimate for six months is not quite the same thing as, say, the fact that you haven't gone out hiking together since last summer. A relationship doesn't grow frayed an
Can Your Sex Life Be Saved? (Part I) 2008-07-10 11:42:00 My friend Ellen was roaming the aisles of her local BedSears store, trying frantically to keep track of her three youngsters while her mother did some shopping. At least her mother knew exactly what she wanted. She made a beeline for the sporting goods aisle, where she began strapping on ankle weights.What's this all about? Ellen wanted to know."Oh, it's just a new way to stay in shape," her mothe
Natural Remedies for a Low Sex Drive 2008-07-10 11:39:00 Many women in my clinical practice experience low to no sex drive at various times.There are many factors that could potentially influence sex drive: menopause- related, other hormonal changes (often following pregnancy), medications (Prozac, Zoloft, Sertraline and others), depression, relationship issues, a chronic health problem, fatigue and more. In order to diagnose the cause correctly, your h Read more:Natural
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Is There an Herbal Viagra? 2008-07-10 11:38:00 Impotence is probably among the most feared of all men's health problems. The prescription drug Viagra has solved this difficulty for many men, but its use is not without risk. Also, it's expensive.Men continue to hope and to ask if there is a safe, effective, and inexpensive herbal remedy for impotence. As far as I'm concerned, the answer is probably not, although one herb appears to be promising Read more:Herbal
How to Enhance Your Sexual Pleasure 2008-07-08 10:12:00 "To succeed with the opposite sex, tell her you're impotent. She can't wait to disprove it." -- Cary Grant You may have noticed the ads in American health magazines for various nutritional supplements promising the user fabulous sex for life. One particular product aimed at women claims to increase the intensity and ease of achieving orgasm, improve clitoral sensitivity, hasten vaginal lub Read more:Sexual
Talk Back: Most Romantic Time 2008-04-29 10:36:00 I wrote to my husband who was out of town a letter explaining all the sexy things I was going to do to him and when he got in town I followed the letter to a tee which was very exciting because he was in anticipation for a week. He was very pleased, and said it was like foreplay for a week.Diane,San Antonio, TXOne night when I came home from work, there was a rose waiting for me on the counter, an
Talk Back: Tales From The Vibrator 2008-04-29 10:36:00 "We had recently purchased a butt plug and after cleaning it had left it out on the bathroom counter to dry. We have two kittens who get into trouble all the time and are always walking off with things of ours. One evening, while my parents were over for dinner our cat walks down with the butt plug in it's mouth and jumps up into my fathers lap! My fiance I wanted to die! It was a horrible experie Read more:Tales
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Talk Back: The Most Exciting Place You've Had Sex 2008-04-29 10:35:00 The wildest place I ever had sex was on top of our local mall on one of the sky lights with my boyfriend who was a security guard at the time. It was during business hours. We never got caught and it was a rush because any customer in the mall that looked up in the air could have seen us up there making love.Sarah C.Macon, GeorgiaI had sex on top of a dryer in in the men's barrack on a marin Read more:Place
The Human Sexual Response 2008-04-29 10:34:00 Sex is an enormous part of our lives as humans, complete with its own rules, etiquette, and ritual. It requires such intense emotional investment that it is often easy to forget that sex is really just a biological function intended to advance our species. In their 1966 book Human SexualResponse
, researchers William Masters and Virginia Johnson reveal four generally accepted biological stages of
How-To: Multiple Orgasms for Men 2008-04-29 10:33:00 God was just about done creating the universe, but he had two extra things left in his bag of creations, so he decided to split them between Adam and Eve. He told the couple that one of the thingsHe had to give away was the ability to stand up while urinating."It's a very handy thing", God told the couple, whom he found under an apple tree. "I was wondering if either one of you wanted it."Adam ju Read more:Multiple
Sex Toys and the Modern Woman 2008-04-29 10:32:00 So what is with all of these sex toys? Is it our imagination or are more and more women buying more and more sex toys? If you want to enhance your love life with a great sex toy or two you are in luck, there have never been so many choices as there are today! The stigmatism with sex toys is disappearing quite quickly. In the recent past not too many women would admit to owning a vibrator let alone Read more:Modern
Anorgasmia is the failure for women to reach orgasm 2008-04-29 10:32:00 Anorgasmia is the failure
for women to reach orgasm. Unfortunately 10% to 40% of women have difficulty reaching that climatic moment during intercourse. This term is used for women who are medically unable to climax and for women who are unable due to other means. The majority of anorgasmia cases are caused by psychological, social, cultural, or relationship variables. Anorgasmia can be treated th
Six traits for a great sexual relationship 2008-04-29 10:31:00 One: being physically fit.Having sex requires physical energy. Thus, the sexual activities will be modified, compensating for the person who fatigues easily. Being in shape allows you to not only last longer, but to enjoy what you are doing in the moment because you do not have to worry about all the sore muscles which you are developing. Furthermore, having sex with someone who is in shape is mor
Sexual Positions For Different Types Of People 2008-04-29 10:29:00 Sex is like dancing. There are millions of moves, which each person can do. Yet the moves may take more than just a simple 'Yes I can do', they may need corrections which only your partner can do. You see, some of them require a slight twist of the hip or a shake of the arm. There is no right or wrong, just a feel that is good, thus, it is here that you will learn of some basic moves, which you ca Read more:Sexual
Sex in Public: Excitement of Possibility Being Caught 2008-04-29 10:29:00 Ever took leave of your senses and dare to gratify yourself to the extreme? Despite all that men has been known for their sexual enthusiasm, women are creatures of the wild too. The trouble with most ordinary women is that they define themselves by societies imposition of them. It is the recommendation of this article for you to be like men and make sexual pleasure your own private tool. Sex is ve Read more:Caught
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How To Choose Right Lubricant? 2008-04-29 10:28:00 There are so many lubricants on the market today that it is really hard to understand what they do and why there are so many. It is safe to divide them into categories of use.Lubricants for vaginal intercourse. You may be surprised to imagine that lubricants are even need for vaginal intercourse since the vagina creates its own lubrication. However, many women feel uncomfortable during intercourse Read more:Right
Wet And Messy Sex! 2008-04-29 10:27:00 You have probably seen the famous scene in 9 1/2 Weeks where Mickey Rourke and Kim Basinger have a little fun with food. If this has ever seemed appealing to you, you may have a tendency toward WAM, or Wet-and-Messy
sex. If you can talk your partner into some wild fun, here are some tips and ideas that will get you cooking! First of all, messy sex takes some preparation. Unless you are willing to
X-Prostitute: Curious Things That Turned-on My Clients 2008-04-29 10:25:00 A true story from an x-prostituteMost of us will be aware that one of the first things that attracts us about a person is a certain type of look. Some women are known to notice arms, buttocks (most popular), hands, teeth, eyes and hair. Men seem to go for one or another particular physical attribute. They are known as 'boob' men, 'leg' men, or 'ass' men. But there are an increasing number of peop Read more:Clients
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Elements of Erotic Massage 2008-04-29 10:25:00 Any kind of massage can be a beautiful and relaxing experience. But, an erotic massage is meant to arouse sexual feelings in the body. It will also enhance your relationship with your partner in ways you would never believe. For one, erotic massage increases your sense of trust in your partner. Also, an erotic massage, if done correctly will increase your physical and psychological fulfillment, th Read more:Massage
Conflicting Libidos: How to Understand Each Other's Feelings 2008-04-29 10:23:00 The most common sexual problem for couples during pregnancy and after the birth of their child is their conflicting libidos. Most likely, the man is interested in sex and the woman is not. Her lack of interest can stem from several factors, including hormonal changes, fatigue and illness. Sometimes a decreased interest may be due to a woman's anxiety about becoming a mother or her idea that her ma Read more:Feelings
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What Women Want vs. What Men Want: A Sexual Roundtable 2008-04-29 10:22:00 So, you think you know what the opposite sex wants in bed, huh? Well, maybe you do. But you may want to read what three men and three women said in a round table discussion on the topic before you proclaim yourself an expert. Their last names have been omitted because the discussion gets pretty in-depth and, let's face it, it's a private thing. But these are real people who represent the typi Read more:Roundtable
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The Key To Good Kissing Is Creativity 2008-04-29 10:22:00 The key to good kissing is creativity, active listening, and changing patterns. Creativity
speaks for itself. Creativity includes trying new ideas, and/or new combinations of movements, locations and moods. Active listening refers to paying attention to your partner's verbal and non-verbal signals. Is your partner currently excited? Is your partner in a happy or sad mood? What does your partner wa Read more:Kissing
Tantric Lovemaking, The Orgasmic Experience 2008-04-29 10:20:00 Most women have had an orgasm at some point in their lives. Many have one or more orgasms every time they make love. Still others have absolutely no idea what an orgasm feels like. But how many women, particularly those who do not participate in Tantric sex, have experienced the ultimate orgasm? The ultimate orgasm can be described as a whole-body experience, rather than a strictly genital one. I Read more:Orgasmic
Use Fantasy to Spice Up Your Sex Life 2008-04-29 10:20:00 I have a confession to make. I love to fantasize about different sexual situations. I think that the only abnormal part about that is that I'm willing to admit it. Or, perhaps I should say, I am female, and I'm willing to admit it! Fantasies are different for everyone, and I've heard that many women are ashamed about the fantasies that they have. It's funny that I've never heard of a man asha Read more:Spice
Q & A: how to get my husband in the mood for sex? 2008-10-09 23:15:00 I want to learn how to get my husband in the mood for sex, but it just don't know where to start. Can you help?-- upsdear ups,The fine art of seduction - it's the ability to peek your partner's desire and direct his attention away from what he's doing (and towards you!). There are no ABCs as each person is unique and responds to different things (although some Romeos would like to tell you otherwi
Q & A: We both like oral sex, but she only likes to receive and not to give 2008-10-09 23:09:00 My girlfriend and I get along fine except for one thing. We both like oral sex, but she only likes to receive and not to give. Don't get me wrong; I'm happy to give at any time -- it's just that I'm the only one giving. I've tried going slowly and working my way up to getting her in the mood to give, but she says she just doesn't feel right about it. It's slowly driving me crazy, because my previo
Q & A: Whenever we kiss it's like a tongue war! 2008-10-09 23:05:00 I've started dating this guy, and whenever we kiss it's like a tongue
war! He just tries to stick his tongue as far down my throat as possible, and I have to fight it off with my tongue! How do I tell him I'd like him to chill out without hurting his feelings?-- no kiss-eydear no kiss-ey,Sounds to Delilah like you're more no tongue-y than no kiss-ey. Listen, everyone has different styles in bed, a Read more:Whenever