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Too Tough To Hold On, Too Good To Let Go.
2008-02-25 12:39:14
Arguments are unavoidable in relationships. In fact, arguments are essential doses to healthy relationships, provided both partners take each argument as a potential to grow and learn. Then again, just how much argument is healthy and how much is too much? If you find yourself in a relationship that is in constant argument and neither you nor your partner are truly as happy as you were before - then it might be time to ask yourself if it would be better to move on and let go. Often times when couples have been together for long and known each other too well, the thought of letting go is almost unimaginable. When things between a man and a woman has become too comfortable, we enter a stage that I would call the 'comfort zone'. When you have known each other inside out as a couple, doing thi
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How We Think and Communicate~The Difference Between Men & Women~
2008-02-15 14:00:02
Women are big when it comes to the LITTLE things. We love it when a man opens the door for us. We often EXPECT the man in our life to notice it when we just had a new haircut or when we are wearing the new dress. We simply love it when a man does the little thoughtful things. We are also thrilled when he does bigger things for us like buying roses or taking us on that romantic travel getaway. Basically, women NOTICE EVERYTHING, big or small. Men are opposites. They have a need to feel successful. They do not thrive on the small but the BIG things. They define success in terms of how big their house is, the type of car they own and how high they are up the corporate ladder. Therefore, it is not surprising that the job a man holds, is how he identifies himself as a man. His workplace is wher
Read more: Communicate , Women

Learning To Love After a Painful Breakup - PART 3
2008-02-12 14:52:34
How do you bounce back from a negative experience? Now, getting over a painful breakup is not easy but I am going to teach you a method that can help you to neutralize your feelings and anger. This method is called the Distortion Technique. This powerful technique is used by NLP experts and I have used this myself to get over some of my negative experiences. First of all, think of a painfully bad breakup you had in the recent past. One that still makes you upset when you think about it. It could be when you saw your ex-boyfriend getting intimate with another woman or a huge argument you both had which he never gave you a chance to explain. Are you ready? Now, just pick ONE bad experience and close your eyes as you play this painful experience in your mind. Play it like you are watching a m
Read more: Learning

Valentine's Day Survival Tips
2008-02-07 06:44:41
It's February again and I know many of you lovebirds are looking forward to Valentine 's Day already :)If you're looking for romantic ideas for that special someone, you will definitely find this ebook by Michael Webb as useful as I did ;) Click on the book cover below to download his free ebook on 101 Romantic Ideas. Enjoy!Well, if you don't have a date for Valentine's Day, don't fret! I'll share with you some ideas to survive Valentine's Day without a significant other. It's Not Just For CouplesValentine's Day is about showing love and appreciation for the people you care about. I remember one year on Valentine's when my single friends and I decided to head for a girls day out. We planned a day watching movies, window shopping followed by dinner and lots of chit-chats. Every once in a whi


Beauty Queen vs The Girl Next Door
2008-02-05 13:00:31
I hear a lot of women complaining about men being shallow. They only go for good looking women. If this is true, how is it that the average looking women still end up with a good man and eventually getting married? How is it also, that women who look like models have a hard time finding men? Could it be that these model beauty queens are more fussy and have higher expectations when it comes to men?Of the studies I have read, it is shown that men would rather go out with the girl-next-door than the beauty queen. Men enjoy the company of a woman who is approachable, friendly and is able to carry off a decent conversation.Beautiful women are very used to getting approached by men. They know they can get almost anything they want due to their good looks. They believe men are truly only intere
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Learning to Love After a Painful Breakup - PART 2
2008-01-30 04:31:04
We all have an idea of 'the right man' for ourselves. We develop ideas of how he should act and behave and what kind of character we want in him. We want everything about him to be 'perfect'. To find 'the right man', ask yourself: "Am I the right woman for him?" If you are striving to find that 'right man', then it only makes sense that you must be 'the right woman' for him.The small self-assessment that I provided in PART 1 is very useful so you can understand yourself better and where you are coming from. Self-assessment is the first step towards being a better you. It provides the initial platform towards a better love life. So make sure not to skip it. After the self-assessment, make an effort and take steps to improve your relationship by eliminating the self-limiting behaviours that
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Learning To Love After a Painful Breakup - PART 1
2008-01-25 03:26:29
No one likes the feel of being alone. When a man and a woman get together, they seek to find love through each other. The road to finding love is not always smooth sailing. It is actually a journey of constant learning. Recall the time when you were a teenager. How you felt when you fell in love for the first time - the uplift, the joy, the bliss, the happiness - you felt like nothing else in the world mattered except the two of you. You were both young and curious about each other. You both wanted to know what it felt like to be in love. And you were both HAPPY. Then it happened - the painful breakup. You told yourself you would get through it and you did, eventually. Then you met a new man and ventured into a new relationship that ended up in yet another painful break up. You told yourse
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I'll Be Back
2008-04-01 11:26:57
Hi all,It's been a while since I've put up any new posts. I'm taking a break from writing for a while now due to my hectic schedule. I shall be back after May.Till then, be happy and have fun!Because you deserve the very best in love!Niza A.


Will a Man Change After Marriage?
2008-04-23 12:55:50
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~I mentioned that I will be on a break but just last week, a newly-wed friend was talking to me about some troubles in her marriage. It saddens me to know of her situation. So it got me to write this article that I hope could help some of the women out there who are experiencing some rocky times.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~When it comes to change, we have to understand that it is something which cannot be forced on a person. Change has to come from WITHIN. The person should want to change because he/she really WANTS to.In relationships, women try to change everything about their man. They try to change his clothes, hair, the way he walks and talks...anything they feel would need some kind of improvement.Women think: Well since I


Are You Testing His Love For You?
2008-05-08 02:28:57
Have you ever noticed that when a group of people hang out together, they usually have some similiarities that appeal to their own group of people? Do you see party-goers hanging out with each other or individuals who enjoy the quieter side of life hanging out with their own 'type' of people? Perhaps you've also seen business-minded people mixing with people of their own 'kind'. What about in a school setting? You will notice students somehow form groups or cliques with similar friends. These groups usually have some sort of distinct character in them. Well, you get my point. When individuals 'click' together, sometimes almost effortlessly, it is because they have something in common. There is something similar about them even though it may not always be instantly visible. The world is a h
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The Incredible Effect Of Wearing A Skirt
2008-05-08 16:28:31
In this modern age, we see less and less women in skirts or dresses. Some women wear skirts only when there is a special occassion like a wedding. There are some women too, who are so used to dressing up in pants that putting on a skirt feels awkward to them! Such a tragic!Fact is, most women look GREAT in a skirt or dress. Most importantly, men LOVE to see us in our skirts.Back to the olden days, pants were only worn by men and the women were only seen in skirts and dresses. These women project an image of femininity and gracefulness about them.If you watch the Grammys or any other award shows on TV, most women choose to appear in dresses beacause it makes them look beautiful, femine and elegant. Even if they had chosen the most beautiful pantsuit, it can never beat the attention that a d
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A Happy Relationship Begins With a Happy You
2008-05-11 10:13:33
Generally, men tend to seek the company of a woman who can be at ease and happy with herself. When it comes to relationships, men are most happy when they know they have made their partner happy. This is the probably the most unselfish thing about men.When you're out on dates, genuinely smile and laugh at his little jokes. It shows that you are enjoying his company and nothing will make him happie
Read more: Happy , Relationship

The Best Places To 'Shop' For Men
2008-05-13 23:03:13
Here's my take on the best places to 'shop' for men ;)Go to clubsBy this, I don't mean night clubs.I'm talking about clubs that cater to different interests and needs. If you are into public speaking, do some research and try out a couple before joining one that you feel comfortable in. I went to one recently. Of course my objective was not to meet men but I noticed that most of the members consis
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He Cheated. Should You Give Him A Second Chance?
2008-05-15 06:29:26
First of all, be very sure that you know he has really cheated on you. Do not assume or make wild accusations. Going beserk over something that is based on assumptions is the start of a total disaster in any relationship.When your partner has cheated on you, there is a good chance that he will cheat again. Yes, you read that right. There is a tendency of him cheating on you if he has done it befor
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Blind Date
2008-05-16 16:00:03
Some light humour for the day. Have a wonderful weekend!Because you deserve the very best in love!Niza A.
Read more: Blind , Blind Date

He Cheated. Should You Give Him A Second Chance?
2008-05-15 06:29:26
First of all, be very sure that you know he has really cheated on you. Do not assume or make wild accusations. Going beserk over something that is based on assumptions is the start of a total disaster in any relationship.When your partner has cheated on you, there is a good chance that he will cheat again. Yes, you read that right. There is a tendency of him cheating on you if he has done it befor
Read more: Second

The Best Places To 'Shop' For Men
2008-05-13 23:03:13
Here's my take on the best places to 'shop' for men ;)Go to clubsBy this, I don't mean night clubs.I'm talking about clubs that cater to different interests and needs. If you are into public speaking, do some research and try out a couple before joining one that you feel comfortable in. I went to one recently. Of course my objective was not to meet men but I noticed that most of the members consis
Read more: Places

A Happy Relationship Begins With a Happy You
2008-05-11 10:13:33
Generally, men tend to seek the company of a woman who can be at ease and happy with herself. When it comes to relationships, men are most happy when they know they have made their partner happy. This is the probably the most unselfish thing about men.When you're out on dates, genuinely smile and laugh at his little jokes. It shows that you are enjoying his company and nothing will make him happie
Read more: Happy , Relationship

Are You Testing His Love For You?
2008-05-09 19:03:52
Have you ever noticed that when a group of people hang out together, they usually have some similiarities that appeal to their own group of people? Do you see party-goers hanging out with each other or individuals who enjoy the quieter side of life hanging out with their own 'type' of people? Perhaps you've also seen business-minded people mixing with people of their own 'kind'. Do you ever wonder
Read more: Testing

The Incredible Effect Of Wearing A Skirt
2008-05-08 16:28:31
In this modern age, we see less and less women in skirts or dresses. Some women wear skirts only when there is a special occassion like a wedding. There are some women too, who are so used to dressing up in pants that putting on a skirt feels awkward to them! Such a tragic!Fact is, most women look GREAT in a skirt or dress. Most importantly, men LOVE to see us in our skirts.Back to the olden days,
Read more: Incredible

Learning To Love After a Painful Breakup - PART 3
2008-05-07 14:03:06
How do you bounce back from a negative experience? Now, getting over a painful breakup is not easy but I am going to teach you a method that can help you to neutralize your feelings and anger. This method is called the Distortion Technique. This powerful technique is used by NLP experts and I have used this myself to get over some of my negative experiences. First of all, think of a painfully bad
Read more: Learning

Now That He's Married: Will He Change?
2008-05-07 12:08:16
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~I mentioned that I will be on a break but just last week, a newly-wed friend was talking to me about some troubles in her marriage. It saddens me to know of her situation. So it got me to write this article that I hope could help some of the women out there who are experiencing some rocky times.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~When it comes
Read more: Change

Too Tough To Hold On, Too Good To Let Go.
2008-04-23 13:22:57
Arguments are unavoidable in relationships. In fact, arguments are essential doses to healthy relationships, provided both partners take each argument as a potential to grow and learn. Then again, just how much argument is healthy and how much is too much? If you find yourself in a relationship that is in constant argument and neither you nor your partner are truly as happy as you were before - th
Read more: Tough

How We Think and Communicate~The Difference Between Men & Women~
2008-04-23 12:00:23
Women are big when it comes to the LITTLE things. We love it when a man opens the door for us. We often EXPECT the man in our life to notice it when we just had a new haircut or when we are wearing the new dress. We simply love it when a man does the little thoughtful things. We are also thrilled when he does bigger things for us like buying roses or taking us on that romantic travel getaway. Basi
Read more: Communicate , Women

I'll Be Back
2008-04-01 11:26:57
Hi all,It's been a while since I've put up any new posts. I'm taking a break from writing for a while now due to my hectic schedule. I shall be back after May.Till then, be happy and have fun!Because you deserve the very best in love!Niza A.


Valentine's Day Survival Tips
2008-02-07 06:44:41
It's February again and I know many of you lovebirds are looking forward to Valentine 's Day already :)If you're looking for romantic ideas for that special someone, you will definitely find this ebook by Michael Webb as useful as I did ;) Click on the book cover below to download his free ebook on 101 Romantic Ideas. Enjoy!Well, if you don't have a date for Valentine's Day, don't fret! I'll share


Beauty Queen vs The Girl Next Door
2008-02-05 13:00:31
I hear a lot of women complaining about men being shallow. They only go for good looking women. If this is true, how is it that the average looking women still end up with a good man and eventually getting married? How is it also, that women who look like models have a hard time finding men? Could it be that these model beauty queens are more fussy and have higher expectations when it comes to me
Read more: Beauty , Queen , Beauty Queen , Next Door

Learning to Love After a Painful Breakup - PART 2
2008-01-30 04:31:04
We all have an idea of 'the right man' for ourselves. We develop ideas of how he should act and behave and what kind of character we want in him. We want everything about him to be 'perfect'. To find 'the right man', ask yourself: "Am I the right woman for him?" If you are striving to find that 'right man', then it only makes sense that you must be 'the right woman' for him.The small self-assessme
Read more: Learning

Learning To Love After a Painful Breakup - PART 1
2008-01-25 03:26:29
No one likes the feel of being alone. When a man and a woman get together, they seek to find love through each other. The road to finding love is not always smooth sailing. It is actually a journey of constant learning. Recall the time when you were a teenager. How you felt when you fell in love for the first time - the uplift, the joy, the bliss, the happiness - you felt like nothing else in the
Read more: Learning

First Dates to Soul Mates - Pre-Launch!
2008-05-21 05:21:57
I am excited to tell you that Amy Waterman has been working extremely hard on a new book, First Dates To Soul Mates. Not only has she recorded over 4 hours of interviews with well known dating/relationship speakers, she has also written over 350 pages of amazing content! Yes that’s a very long book, but it isn’t heavy reading. In fact, it promises to be a fun and pleasant read with beautifully
Read more: Launch , First Dates

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