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Do You Feel You Need To Control Love 2008-01-29 12:27:26 Love is not a thing. Yes, it is an emotion and that can call it something, however love is not shown with body nor words, love is felt only. The stems of love come from trust, safety in growth, and trust again. When trust is pierced love is injured. Injured love brings about behaviors in souls that they do not know how to account for fully, since they may not know the stems of their loss of trust that brings about second guessing love. You see, souls at times, test love to see if it will withstand us. Love is not a thing to be tested. Love simply is. When it is pushed and prodded it responds with pushes and prods. It is simply reflective of the soul who is living it in the ways in which it is understood to them. There is not a surprise that your current partner or any partner, for the part Read more:Control
Sustainable Love 2007-12-20 14:54:44 We expect so much from love We want it to make us happy We want it to take care of the rest of our lives When....it comes Love is always here Yet it doesn't recognize itself With all our conditions It can only be love if so and so is cute It can only be love if it is what makes me look good It can only be love if it is what I wanted it to be, We don't even let love surprise us anymore We expect so much from it that when it is here we walk right by it like it wasn't there A person tells you they love you and we even find a way to not believe them And continue treating them as though they do not We will believe that someone who gives us no attention loves us, Read more:Sustainable
Meat and Potatoes 2007-11-30 13:49:59 What you have in common is your keyWhat you do not is your acceptanceAnd what you like or do not like is your toleranceAnd what you are not knowing of yet is your growth Anyone can have sex, however can anyone have a relationshipA partnershipWe all know how to meetYet do we all know how to stayHow to stand still in compromise when things do not go our wayWhen we are scared to have the love of anotherAnd we want to run away just because we do not know what else to do A relationship is our growing groundAnd in the best case scenarioIn safetyTo grow and still be loved It is a very hard thing to do when you are in argumentand then rekindle the parts where we like being vulnerableAnd we open ourselves to loving in the freedom of how see love rather th
Unopened Gifts 2007-11-19 17:42:53 Finally a day to say To remind ourselves To remember To speak out loud How do I forgive myself That is one unopened gift How do I have compassion for myself Yet another unopened gift We speak in life, I have been able to forgive....another I can now go on Yet what is forgiveness? How do you forgive yourself? To forgive is to say I have not learned Compassion will speak that you have learned You see, it is not about forgiveness at all Forgiveness says that you will overlook and get over something that hurt you Whether you did it to yourself or to someone else It is to say, that you have not learned the lesson so you will forgive the action Read more:Gifts
What A Spoon Can Tell You 2007-11-12 18:33:20 When you walk past the sink, and it is clean Are you the person who drops the spoon in Or are you the one that walks by and cleans it Do you only wash it if someone else is there or do you leave it for someone else to take on your work Are we really getting away with anything when we try not to do something We try so hard to get out of this, get out of that It is the truth as it is You either do or you don't Some wait until the sink is full And others wash and dry as they go Some keep the Oh I have to do this, to do that, bef Read more:Spoon
Would You Know You? 2007-11-10 12:28:23 Who would you be if no one you now know knew you? What would you say about yourself? What would you start with? What would you say your hobby is? What work you do? How much you love it? What it means to you, to your life to do what you do? How could you see your intentions when you feel like you will die if things don't go your way? How flexible are you to change of heart, of mind, when you are challenged? Do you know who you are with Money and without it? Are you generous when you are happy? Are you mean when you are mad? Do you think about the other persons point of view when you are in a disagreement? Do you go out of your way to say thank you when you are thankful?
The Music Of Love 2007-11-05 15:27:04 One day we wake up singing A song to a happy tune Without a prompt or a reason Without music or noise Only the excitement of seeing you Today we are getting married Saying Yes to each other without further ado Love is the trail we followed Learned each other in safety and grew Let our ugly find itself, showed it to you You said, Hey that's OK I am still here for you I learned me through you You told me the truth You speak to me, it is not only you It is you and me, and we are two There is strength in numbers When the two are in truth Someone to say to you this works for me too Love is not a show or does it come with a Read more:Music
A Bottle of Hope 2007-11-02 15:20:13 What does it look like when we have hope? We walk faster We talk more We involve others We try new things We wear different colors And we insist on trying until we succeed We sing to songs We listen to others It is not so important that we are “right”We need less sleep We don't over eat We exercise And we say good morning We listen to “happy” music We dance while we are walking We see someone who is having a bad day and we say we are sorry We help someone who needs it And we accept help when we need it Hope is the promise of our souls capacity Hope is the reason we remember why we are alive Hope is the person who remin
Bring Me A Higher Love 2007-10-29 12:41:22 Your higher self is talkingAnd you speak to it that it is not possibleThat you are not good enough or strong enough to be that personYour higher self tells you you are that personAnd you should at the very least tryThat you have nothing to loseThat even an embarrassing moment is a story of truth to speak about in loveYour higher self is you without boundaries and limitsThat only you can put in and only you can releaseYour higher self is your capabilityYour abilityNeither of which know the word NOImagine if the word NO did not existBoy would the freedom of our souls be happy!There would be no answer that can not be hadThere would be a way to find to do almost anything you thought ofCapability just means to knowAbility means to tryTo know and To tryTo see if it is yours to grow more withOr t Read more:Higher
Think Love, Create Love 2007-10-26 16:55:06 As Love starts to teach youWho you areWhen you think of sharing your home, your heart, your familyIt tells you the best of youAs you present it all newTo a person that you feel love toIn a way that you always doLove is not fantasyNor is it realityLove is between bothThat is the excitement of it allWhen you think of loveDo you notice how you are in the best thoughts of who you are?Some of us wait for new love to feel such open feelings towards ourselvesAs though it is the only way we can feel itGetting to the truth of things, you can feel this on your ownYou see, love is love is loveThere isn't one kind of loveLove is so open, it is in everythingThat feeling of presenting your life to someone newIt is already presentAs you build your life with love for yourselfThat love, that excitement, th
The Space Between You and You 2007-10-22 13:00:22 Believe in yourselfAnd don't allow yourself not toSpeak your truthAnd don't allow yourself to judge youWear what you loveAnd don't allow yourself to take away the joy of itSay you can when you think you can'tDo what you say you would never be able toAnd try foods that aren't "you"Go to a movie aloneAnd buy yourself some popcornTreat yourself to a walkListen to music that isn't music you would normally listen toAnd you will start seeing that you can adaptThat you can take in and enjoy what is newThat you too can be newWe think our job is to stay who we areBe who we areAct like who we areAnd whoever said how, what or who we are means?We are who we think we are, that is whoWe are the person who can try things, leave things that aren't right for usAnd build things from simple thoughts in our h Read more:Space
Your Soul Is Not Your Body 2007-10-19 15:05:59 We are trying to tell the world that our body is our soulWe found ways to fill our bodiesChange our bodiesKeep our bodies from agingDressing younger or older depending on what we are trying to accomplishAnd then if someone is disabled we think they are less or need more help than usAnd if they are sick we get scared because it could be usAnd if they are dressed 'better' than us we actually think they are 'smarter' than usAnd a bigger house only reminds us that we are not as 'successful'Yet, I am writing this and if you didn't know me, you wouldn't know anything about meAll you would hear are my words,You would feel my feelings for a moment of your lifeYou would share the love I feel in writing this, as I am writing itLove doesn't look like anyoneLove isn't meant only for someLove isn't mea
Never Mind Why, Simply Do What is Right 2007-10-15 15:51:07 It doesn't take explanation to do what is rightTo do what makes things betterTo say what needs to be saidEither side of the coinWhen things are tough, tell the truthWhen things are not, tell the truthThere is no sense in creating stories to make things seem more excitingThe excitement is in how much you love it, telling it that wayAnd giving someone else a chance to live it with you tooWe always think everything has to be bigger, better or worth hearingThat we have to have a punchline or a reason for saying somethingIt is so much simpler than thatTell the truth from your heartAnd your heart will do the restWhen there is a moment where telling the truthIs something you do not want to doIt has nothing to do with the other person at allAsk yourself, why is it that you feel like you can not?Wh Read more:Right
Choose Love 2007-10-12 19:13:26 Walk away from those who let you downWalk away from those who do not care that they hurt your feelingsWalk away from those who set you upFrom those you know will talk about you if you mess upLearn to walk away, rather than prove anyone wrongIt only takes your energy into the black hole they have created for you to fall withinYou are allowed to say NOYou are allowed to find LoveYou are allowed to find peaceYou are entitled to enjoy your timeWe forget that we can say NOTo what hurts our energy and takes away our speedThat which reminds us of failure rather than our hearts successWe are all as successful as we see ourselvesWe are all as weak as we believe others will speak of usWe must remember that those that talk about usare only doing so from their own weakness and their desire to weaken o
Blueprint for Life 2007-10-09 10:01:06 What we need:We need a political party that represents both the poor and the richWe need credit cards that are not designed to keep you in debtWe need mortgages that are simple and clear and no fine printI am thinking no fine print on the credit cards eitherWe need less pressure to have more work in a dayAnd more pressure to balance time to work, sleep, eat, and sit with your familyWe need more pressures to complete tasks without so many stepsBe able to have a doctor to go toBuy all the food that we needGo to a Library to readWe need more pressure to build our neighborhoods,Know our neighborsSay Hello with nothing more to sayWe need moments to catch up and rejuvenateLeaders that we can depend onJobs we can grow inHomes we can keep forever if we want toWe need streets that we all keep clean Read more:Blueprint
Emotional Detox 2007-10-05 12:06:26 Instead of I can't do thisI will try this new thingInstead of I won't go thereGo and see what you were missingYellow doesn't look good on me?Wear YellowNever gone back and said you are sorry to someone from years ago?Call them nowYour closet need cleaning?Don't get dressed one morning and just start cleaning itWanted to cook and instead are planning to grab something on the run?CookKeep thinking of going for a walk?Go and WalkKeep thinking to plan a get together at your home?Start making phone callsLove to cook and never have the ingredients?Buy them and stock them, you will always be readyIf there is someone you really love and you have never told themTell them and expect nothing backYou see it isn't what you are doingIt is what we are not doing to each otherIt is what we are not sayingNo Read more:Emotional
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Don't Be True to Me, Be True to You 2007-10-01 14:54:12 You tell me about yourself by what you say you doIf you ask me not to tell another something,You ask that of someone else tooIf I see you lie to another personYou most likely lie to me tooIf you wash your hands before you eatI know you wash everything else tooIf you are OK with taking something that isn't yoursYou will take me for what isn't yoursIf you talk about othersThen you talk about me tooYou see it isn't what you confide in meConfidences need not beOpen and free is truthTruth doesn't need an introductionOr a premise or a thoughtTruth just isJust wasWill always beYou are not any different in front of meThan behind me, when there is truthWe ask of each other many thingsOne thing I ask of myselfTo tell you the truthSo that you know I am truthfulTo treat you with respect,Then you know
Shopping for Love 2007-09-28 11:31:33 What do you get when you give?What do you give to get?When you give it is a feeling of exhilaration that is addicting and self growingIt is like that plant that doesn't even need water to growI was walking into a store the other dayAnd a lady was on the ground dragging herself to a bagShe had fallen and she was too heavy to get upAt first she seemed like she had a method so I was just going to go into the storeThen I saw her dragging herself and I was wondering if that is just how she got out of her car and did her businessBut then I was just curious so I went to her and asked her if she needed help.she told me that her daughter was going to come out of the store in a minute, that she is in lineThat she walked out of the store and was holding onto a pole to hold herself upAnd that she let Read more:Shopping
A Glimpse of Self Love 2007-09-23 17:37:36 Are you scared to love me?Does it show that I am scared to love you?Maybe it is because I don't know how to love me either?I have been trying to figure out how to love myselffor many years nowI still am not sure what that looks like to say, I love me, I love you tooWhen I don't love me the mostI get scared that you won't love me eitherWhen I love me the mostI know you will be with me foreverI use to think of loving myself as selfishThen I use to think it was all in my ego to do thatThen I realized when I was happy inside, selfish and ego weren't an issueThat I just wanted to spend time with you because I love youAgain when I was happyAnd then I wake up and I am not so sure how I feelAnd I take it out on youAccusing you of things that were OK the day beforeI found out when I am not happy, y
Love's Soulvation 2007-09-21 10:36:45 You can't know nice until you are niceYou can't know beautiful until you feel beautifulYou aren't happy for others until you feel happy yourselfYou don't see the effort of others until you put forth an effort yourselfYou won't acknowledge anothers success until you have felt a sense of success yourselfIt's hard to have appreciation for anything if you never had to live without itWe can not know how it is to starve when we can't decide what to eatWe can not see a heart until we can feel our ownWe can not extend a hand, until a hand has been extended to usWhen we know something, then we can share itWe need examples from each other to see how effective it is to share who we are, what we feelIf one of us does something, someone else immediately learns, feels, understands its worthWe are one, w
Silence is a Language 2007-09-16 16:19:51 Once you have said your point, stop talkingWhen you are in an argument, and you say why, stop talkingLet the language of silence speakWhen you want to tell someone how mad you are at them,Stop yourself and walk awayCome back when you figure it outMinus the hurtful words that are never forgottenAnd the actual argument that isIt isn't time anymore to see how much you can hurt another personIt is time to realize that when that happens everyone gets hurt, not just the receiverThat everyone pays, a price that is unspokenSince silence is the loudest languageStop yourself and walk awayDon't participate in angerStrength comes from finding the loveUnderstanding that you don't want to failAnd neither does the other personKnow that when you are angry it is when you are the most vulnerableAnd there is
The Fear of Love is the Love of Fear 2007-09-14 12:49:51 When we say we fear somethingWhat is it that we mean?Do you use it as an excuse to not try or push yourself beyond it?Do we let it gain greater strength than us and then blame it for being stronger?How is it when fear wins?When fear winsIt is telling us it beat us at our own missionYou see, we all come here to do somethingOther than live, we come to grow our soulsAnd in that we are not on one path at a time, nor are any of us on a path that is a straight lineThere are turns and corners and questions and doubtsThere are confidence issues, self esteem questions, love of self, not known how to doAnd to balance things, there is love, and joy and hopeCaring and trying and things looking like they did not work out as they are working outFear is what tells us things won't work outCan't work out f
I Want To Be Mad At You...Would You Do Something 2007-09-10 13:41:51 You know when you are mad about something, and you can't get yourself to talk about it?And then you are asked if something is wrong, and you want it to go away so you say nothing?And then it doesn't go away, and it affects your mood, from being asked what do you want to eat to where do you want to go?It becomes the big white elephant in the room and then there is no longer any room to walk around it?You start to realize it is something you must face, and you don't know how to say it?That you feel vulnerable and you don't want to fight with the other person or get them mad or feel like a fool?And you feel like you handling it alone would be bestAs time still goes on, you are not any happier, you didn't handle it, and you are now waiting for the other person to do something, so that you coul
Heartmaker Icebreaker 2007-09-10 12:27:47 Sometimes we don't speak to each other because we really don't know what to sayWe think we have to say something important or cleverStunning or worth hearingYet a simple, What's Up, would doAnd then the person can tell youAnd then you can tell themWe don't have to be so into what we would sayIt is the interest in others that is most loving to speak aboutIt is the wanting to share that we are really looking forSometimes we are so inside our own headsWe forget others even have a headSometimes we are so worried of hurting our heartsThat we can't remember what it was like to just relax and speakEveryone is to themselves what we are to usEveryone really does want to feel anotherYet we assume they don'tWe assume a lot of things when it comes to feelings and emotionsAnd it is usually the way that
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