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Kick away your anxiety now 2007-09-25 04:09:00 As said by Henry Ward Beecher, It is not work that kills men, it is worry.Work is healthy; you can hardly put more on a man than he can bear.But worry is rust upon the blade.it is not movement that destroys the machine, but friction, worry and anxiety
are things which kills a person of any age or status ( rich or poor) gradually if not treated in time. Worry and anxiety will hurt your whole mental and physical health and makes you more weaker.It will effects first in the centre of brain and slowly over the whole body.It shortens our life stealing all our joys, happiness , cheer and all good moments.But interestingly, you can be safe if you consider some points or also gain good moments if you think you are suffering already:1.Doubt and fear create anxiety in you.So be confident and determined thinking you can sure do what you are doing. Do not spend time in fear and doubt.2.According to Horace, Imagine everyday to be the last of a life surrounded with hopes, cares, anger and fear. T
Unlit candle 2007-09-20 00:38:00 The writer of this article is Strickland GillianA man had a little daughter-an only and much beloved child.He lived fot her-she was his life.So when she became ill and her illness resisted the efforts of the best obtainable physicians, he became like a man possessed, moving heaven and earth to bring about her restoration to health.His best effort proved unavailing and the child died.The father was totally irreconcilable.He became a bitter recluse, shutting himself away from his friends and refusing every activity that might restore his poise and bring him back to his normal self. But, one night he had a dream.He was in heaven, and was witnessing a grand pageant of all the little angels.They were marching in an apparently endless line past the Great White Throne.Every white-robed angelic tot carried a candle.He noticed that one child's candle was no lit.Then he saw that the child with the dark candle was his own little girl.Rushing to her, he seized her in his arms, caressed her tende
Shake it off 2007-09-18 04:11:00 This was written by Joseph SicaOnce upon a time there was a farmer who had an old mule.The mule fell into a deep dry well and began to cry loudly.Hearing his mule cry, the farmer came over and assessed the situation.The well was deep and the mule was heavy.he knew it would be difficult, if not possible, to lift the animal out. Because the mule was old and the well was dry, the farmer decided to bury the animal in the well.In this way he could solve two problems: put the old mule out of his misery and have his well filled.He called upon his neighbors to help him and they agreed to help.To work they went.Shovel full of dirt after dirt began to fall on the mule's back.He became hysterical.The all of a sudden an idea came to the mule.each time they would throw a shovel full of dirt on his back he would shake it off and step up.Now, exhausted and dirty but quite alive , the mule stepped over the top of the well and walked through the crowd.A great attitude.A great way to approach the Read more:Shake
Success is just 10 steps away (Part 2 of 2) 2007-09-14 00:57:00 5. We all love going to new places. Even of you are busy working all the days and weeks, manage few days to go to new places you've never been before. Call your friends to accompany you. You will be fresh and get new taste about importance and joy of your life and lots of entertainment as well. Go to such place where yo can interact with the nature away from crowd of everyday life.6. Do not talk so much but share your knowledge and your experience with your near and dear one or friends. In return listen carefully to them also. Do not talk in loud voice. Your listener will be irritated and will not return again to listen you if you always vomit of only yourself and do not let others to speak even a word.Sharing knowledge is great way to achieve immortality. Many people understand love as that which is done only between a girl and a boy. We love our father, mother, sister, brother, uncle and son on.That is also love. Best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds you Read more:Success
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Success is just 10 steps away(part 1 of 2) 2007-09-14 00:19:00 Successful life means different for different people. For me this is to be a doctor and to become rich like Bill Gates (Suppose), for you this may mean to become a top political leader of the world, for others to be a good player or to win the Miss World title and so on. But generally good and successful life involves being happy, earning a good position in the society, at work or anywhere s/he goes, being healthy, having good relationship with your elders and younger and many more. It is you who can lead your life to the direction as you wish and you can do that as well. I am here giving you some very important things you should remember to direct your life to the positive direction.1. Do you think Mt. Everest (Nepal), would have been climbed if our great climbers hadn't taken risk and tried to be on the top on day? Would human being have been on the surface of moon if Neil Armstrong hadn't taken risk with his life and afraid of death. So, great love and great achievements invol Read more:Success
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Peace of Mind 2007-09-11 02:05:00 Your mind should be peaceful for you to be a healthy person.Here below are some points you should remember for Peace
of Mind.1.Change yourself according to the environmentIt is nature of our mind to be adapted according to new environment. So we have to change our mind with the new environment2.Do not be jealousAlways try to do best of yourself and enjoy in the achievement and success of others.Jealousy makes us feel unsatisfied every time.3.Forgive and forgetEvery person makes mistake that may be smaller or bigger in life.So try to forgive as far as possible.4.Never leave the mind vacantBy this, I don't mean that you should think anything if your mind is vacant.Fill your mind with positive thinking and good ideas.5.Do not interfere in other's business unless asked6.Do not bite off more than you can chewUnnecessary things will be accumulated in your mind and starts to do here and there in your mind and you will be stressed.7.Meditate regularlyMeditation helps to fight against anxiety
Say bye-bye to Stress(Part 2of 2) 2007-09-10 04:03:00 4. RelationshipAlways try to maintain good relationship with every person you deal with or meet. Do not argue for small things. Rather solve the problem by discussion with another concerned party.Respect elder and love younger. Forgive as far as possible. This will reduce your risk of stress and also helps to maintain good relationship.5. Meditation and YogaYour mental health will be good and mind will be peaceful by meditation and yoga. This is a great method to be away from stress and even if you have stress it will help to reduce that gradually.6.Do exercise regularlyGet up early in the morning and go for simple jugging or walking for about an hour. Or you can also play your favorite game or that is available. You will be happy and tension free throughout the day.7.Be optimisticAlways think positive. Be happy and do smile lot.Negative thinking effects our health and brings us to unnecessary tension.
Say bye-bye to Stress(Part1 of 2) 2007-09-10 03:42:00 In todays fast and quick life, stress is major problem among many people. Time is always fixed i.e. 24 hours a day but we have to do more and more things within that period of limited time. There are many reasons behind stress in a person. We sometime be stressed due to problem at office, sometimes at home and so on. Stress has negative effect on every aspects of our life. It will harm our health definitely and makes us weak and pessimistic about our life. Our social environment will also be disturbed.Here are some points you should remember to minimize to potential of stress.1. Separate office work from that at homeDon't spend your time at home worrying about what you do at office and your time at office worrying about what you do at home.2.Plan before doing This is very important thing you should remember and it will not only help to reduce risk of stress due to problem while doing work , but also helps you to finish your work in time. Before doing thing, divide the time you hav
All you need is Love but who knows what it is?(Part 3 of 3) 2007-09-08 03:20:00 Some interesting facts INFATUATIONSees the other person as perfectWants to get own needs meet; selfishSpends all the time without other personQuickly 'falls' for the other personOther relationships and friends deteriorateDependence on the other personBecomes jealous frequentlyLasts for a short period timeDistance strains and often puts an end to the relationshipQuarrels are serious and commonQuarrels can seriously damage the relationshipLOVESees the other person's flaws and still loves him or herWants to serve the other person; selflessStill spends time with othersTakes time to build the relationshipOther relationships and friendships grow stringerTrust and understanding results in less severe and less frequent jealousyEncompasses a long-term commitmentSurvives and sometimes is strengthened because of distanceQuarrels are less serious and less oftenQuarrels can strengthen the relationshipSix biggest mistakes we make at the beginning of a relationshipWe don't ask enough questionsWe
All you need is Love but who knows what it is?(Part 2 of 3) 2007-09-08 02:32:00 What is important?Knowing about the person is the key:Knowing about the person's personality and character is so very important.One good test is to list qualities that attract us to that guy or girl.If the list is long, we know a lot about the person, and like those things.If the list is short, we either don't know a lot about our beloved, or we know much but aren't magnetized by his or her personality.Another important factor in a relationship is common life goals:If the relationship is going to be long term, you need to be going in the same direction as the other person.If his dream is to travel as an international businessman and she wants to be a Realtor in a single location, conflict could arise.If she wants to live in the countryside with nature and he lives the hustle and bustle of a big city, there are potentially serious problem with the couples lives.Love isn't always sex:That statement alone goes against a lot of what the entertainment industry feeds us.Whenever two peop
All you need is Love but who knows what it is?(Part 1 of 3) 2007-09-08 02:29:00 I am here telling something important about love (we all know) and positive things we should know about love.It is sure many of us are not completely known about real love and we cannot compare real love with infatuation and we become failure in life and make our life unfruitful.Have you ever wondered if you really in love or if you were just infatuated?Probably not.Why not? let's face it...when people are completely enamored of someone, they are totally unaware of anything and everything around them except the person that is the object of their affection.In all things, love is the greatest and most powerful emotion that we have!It can make or break us as individuals, and it can even decide what we will become.It's a good thing to know for sure whether you are actually in love or not before you give yourself to someone completely.However, remember that when you're really in love, you don't have to follow all that's mentioned below; they come by themselves.What is real Love?You kno
Heading back to work (Part-II) 2007-09-07 01:23:00 Information Technology is one thing that no workplace today can do without.You just need to have basic knowledge like knowing to us use internet and email.Your CV is another par that you have to focus on.There are different styles in which you can write a CV.in your case it is the skill based CV that you should go for.You need to highlight what you can do by focusing on your strength.Your CV should help you to cover the lack of experience during the time you were out of work.Let your probable employer know what can you do to his/her firm rather than where have you worked you before. While returning to work you should not forget that there would be lot of changes ever in your personal life.The most important thing is to balance your professional and personal life.it is necessary that you discuss your new move with your partner, children and other people who will be affected by your decision.Their support can make things easier and will also boost your self- esteem.The fact that workp Read more:Heading
Heading back to work (Part-I) 2007-09-07 00:33:00 Taking a career break is sometimes not just a choice but rather a necessity for a woman.In most of cases women keep their career at hold for their children.Many women choose to return after their children join a school.But this is not the scenario, there are many women who take rather long career break as they return only when their children themselves have started on their career. Women who have taken up studies and those who had to stay home to take care of elderly relative also undergo through gap in their career.Getting back to work after such career break can be daunting for these women.Most of them get confused and can not think where to begin with. The work place and the working environment have gone through several changes which, they have to deal with.All these often hamper their confidence and also make them question their ability.But this doesn't mean that you can not start all over again.All you need is just to think over certain points and work on it. First of all Read more:Heading
Out with the Old, In with the New 2007-09-06 04:28:00 Have you ever thought about redecorating your life?For most people that means throwing out all you already have and starting fresh again. But this idea is not true and almost impossible and less practical as well.Instead you can use what you have now and redesign your life in wonderful way.Here are some ways for you.1.How is more important than whatYou can create better life by changing what you do today, but just changing how you do what you are doing.You should change the style of doing that work in the way that favors you.Give more importance foe how than what.2.Create positive environmentTry to create an environment that serves you, supports you and contributes to the life style that you want.Do this slowly and step- by-step.It will take some times and you will definitely improve.3.Divide Don't spend your time at home worrying about what you do at office and your time at office worrying about what you do at home.4.Display what you love If something is important for you, put it
Don't worry about the Past because you can't change that(Part-II) 2007-09-05 05:09:00 4. Do things now:Are you regretting for not going to a place where you used to live 10 years back? Then you can plan a trip there now. Or, are you stressed for not asking for contact address (email etc.) of your old friend that you are no more in contact at present? Then internet is one solution for you. There are so many social networking websites where your friend might have an account. I myself have found many of my friends on such sites as Myspace for example only.5. Do smile and be happyBe happy. Do not worry
for the bad action you had done in the past. There was one special reason for happening of that action. Rather try to learn from that and do not repeat again the same mistake. Direct your mind to something positive that you feel happy and good if you started to be stressed.6. Lose the loser attitudeAlways eliminate the word" would have, should have" because they lead us to feeling of guilty. Raise your self esteem by getting rid of defeated attitude. Try to accept and comprom
Don't worry about the Past because you can't change that(Part-I) 2007-09-05 05:03:00 Are you feeling remorseful for what have you said or done? Do you blame yourself only for your ended relationship with your ex- girl/boy friend? Or, if you feel that you don't have girl/boy friend. Then this is sign that you are living with regret.Regret is a feeling of remorse for an act and sense of loss, disappoint or dissatisfaction. Regret can be harmful and unhealthy when it converts small things into bigger one. It may end you to serious health problem. A certain amount of this is healthy. In spite of becoming serious or disappointed about past, you should learn something and try not to do the same thing now on. You should be happy with what you are. Here, I don’t want to day that you shouldn't look out for new things. Here are some important things you can do to avoid regret.1. Be positiveAlways think positive and show positive behavior everywhere and with every person. Be confident and determined with your decision and what you do and let it go. Do not doubt about your abi Read more:worry
Make your today most memorable day in life 2007-09-04 01:28:00 It is time to do something to make your today special and memorable.Life with good memories can be regarded as successful one for most of us.This world is full of good things and lovely people out there if you know how to live fully and for that each day and every moment should be good.If you feel that each day are passing without any accomplishments, then I am here to help you.1.Have fun Check local venues for concert or musical shows of your favorite band or singer.You can try new bar either.You may also join a sports team.So that you will be fit and active and get spirit of team.2.Learn something new Make a list of new things you want to do or learn about and set a deadline for each things in the list.Try always to do the things in deadline and also manage time to do unfinished things if you do not meet the deadline.3.Take a course Register for a classes in something unfamiliar, like foreign cooking/language, drawing without over-scheduling your time, challenge your brain with so
Simple solution to the Sleeping problem 2007-09-03 05:46:00 How many hours a day (because though, most people sleep in night, few of us sleep during the day as well).Two hours (I have heard that Japanese sleep only two hours to work a lot and clearly this I think is true because they are forward today in every sector.But, this mean, I am not saying only Japanese are industrious), five hours, ten hours or more? You can work and perform everything easily if you had slept well previous night.I personally feel this and I think you also agree with this idea.Your health also will be good if you sleep regularly and well enough. Now let me divert your attention a bit but obviously related to what I was talking about above.Some person only lie in the bed without sleeping in the night.This is because they are not called by goddess of sleep.If you have problem with sleeping, then this can be great problem.Because it will definitely affect your health and you can't work well and there will begin stress within you. But, wait just a moment.You can get Read more:Simple
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Beauty of our flaws 2007-09-01 04:31:00 Some person always looks for flaws in other person and thinks negative about latter.But, be careful:flaws are things which makes our life beautiful, if yo can look them positively.Just read below and know yourself what I mean; A water bearer in India had two large pots, each hung one each end of a pole which he carried across his neck.One of the pots had a crack in it, and while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water at the end of the long walk from the stream to the master's house.The cracked pot arrived only half full. For two years this went on daily, with the bearer delivering only one and a half pots full of water in his master's house.Of course, the perfect pot was proud of it's accomplishments, perfect to the end for which it was made.But the poor cracked ashamed of it's own imperfection, and miserable that it was able to accomplish only half of what it had been made to do. After two years of what it perceived to be a bitter fai Read more:Beauty
Something about cause of Stress 2007-09-01 04:03:00 Have you been feeling really stressed lately?Take this short quiz and discover what it is that is causing you stress: Choose three scenarios put of these four-A group of people taking photographsA galloping horseA house with a gardenA statue of the goddess of Venus The clue This test is actually about the cause of our stress recently, and the vital one is the one you left out. If you left out the one with- Group of people taking photographs It means you are very tired over human relationships around you right now Galloping horse It means you're tired and stressed over work recently House with the garden It means you're tired with some matters concerning your family/household lately. Statue of Venus It means you are stressed over matters of the heart-not exactly relationship problems, but more to do with being tired of trying to settling things with your girl/boyfriend.
Your Success Isn't What you think it is 2007-09-29 07:33:00 This post is by T. L. Pakii Pierce in his blog Upgrade your MindYour Success
isn't what you think
it is. Your success is what you think you are and your motivation for pursuing success is intimately tied to your thoughts about yourself and your place in the world.Defining Success For YourselfYour were created for achievement and success. While our motivations for pursuing success can stem from greed to fear of lack to a sense of right and entitlement, our success is intimately tied to what we think about ourselves. You should first understand that success isn't defined just by material gain. I believe the purest definition of success is being happy what your life, your accomplishments and your relationships.We all define success in many different ways but ultimately we are successful when our life choices, the things we accomplish through our life choices and the relationships we build, all allow us to express our life passions and purpose.Whether we head a company or do volunteer wo
What is your aim in life? 2007-09-29 05:37:00 What would be your answer if someone asked you what is your aim in life? Most child definitely would answer that they want to be either doctor, engineer, pilot, actor etc. But some people who are in their teenage or college life would say , Let's see what happens in the future. I do not have definite goal in my life currently.In the same way, if someone has aim, they are either not dedicated or doubtful about their future. So they should have to change their way and some becomes depressed and cannot do further work effectively. This will effect their whole life. So we should have definite goal and work hard and with confidence to achieve what we want to be.I am here giving you some important points on how to set that goal which will be achieved and what should we have to do to be successful.1. Know your inmost interestYou can do better in life only if you do the thing in which you have keen interest. If you are quite, shy and introvert but you want to be a good singer or actor , then,
Important things for Positive and Successful Life 2007-09-25 05:59:00 1. Love YourselfNobody is born perfectly in this world. Always love yourself, your individuality and what you are and what you have. No one will love you if you don't love yourself. So love yourself than any other person or things
. Because it is your life.2.Be confidentBe confident and determined in what you are doing. Think positively the thing you are doing. If you have self confidence, it is well and good, even if nobody is with you.3.Think positiveNever develop negative thinking in your mind. It will hurt your mind and body and also disturbs in your daily life and career. Remember one thing that hope is life and doubt is death.4.Feel AssertiveNobody will degrade you unless you have made any mistake. Always fight for your rights and at the same time have peaceful mind. If you don’t like anything, never hesitate to express your opinion of disliking openly. Otherwise you have to face troubles.5.Motivate Yourself in right directionWe have to motivate ourself to the right direction.N Read more:Positive
How to build your own identity(1 of 2) 2007-10-04 01:46:00 This post is by Bal Krishna Parajuli from The Himalayan TimesAt some point in life, almost everybody asks himself: Who I am? Why am I here? Each person experience life in his/her own way, and that experience is that person's personal truth.For a spiritual person, the answer may be: To know and worship God. For him, life continues even after death. For another, whatever he achieves in his lifetime matters the most. But each life is unique. Every time a flower blossoms, we realise it's not the flower of yesterday. The life of human is similar - new ones sprouting and old ones wilting each day.There has never existed my exact replica, nor will there ever be one. A person's individuality is deeply related to the concept of 'self', which has two meanings: The identity
of an individual created by God and the ego, which is dark and animalistic. The latter might also be called a lower nature that can develop into selfishness and brutality.To create identity of your own, we should focus on
The most memorable day in my life(2) 2007-10-03 00:17:00 Have you read my previous post on The most memorable day in my life? If not I request you to read that first. After reading that post some readers may have got confusion because how all that things happened in the single day! But that was true except few . Let me make matter more clear.As the title of this blog suggests, it contains many tips on how to make our life successful, how can we be positive and think positive and many more. What I think the best way I can serve you my valuable readers is that not only to give all tips point-by-point. It will be better to give all that things in different ways. So that you will also enjoy with what you read and I am sure you will also like my idea.Life is so important for all of us. Every second, hour, day, week, month, year is very much spacial for us. Then, if second or even Milli or micro second is so special then the whole day is thousands times spacial than that second. No?If yes, then why to spend the whole day without any new good thing
The most memorable day in my life(1) 2007-10-01 04:46:00 That particular day five years back was the most memorable day in my life becauseI got up at 4:30 am in the morning and still following the same routine. Before that day, I used to get up late after 8:00 am. So my body was quite bigger than normal for me. I learnt that we should have to get up early in the morning to be fresh throughout the whole day.From the very first moment that day, a different type of positive feeling came into me.Everywhere I went, I saw everyone happy, smiling and talking in very comfortable manner with me.I hadn't seen such beautiful and natural environment before. Sky was so open that I couldn't see any cloud the whole day.Though it was winter day, I was not feeling any coldness.I got promotion letter from my Boss and many colleague thanked me over the phone.The happiest thing was that I was called by my girlfriend with whom I was in love for last five years and said that she loved me. Oh! what a good moment I was in tension with one of my friend because he
Do not forget these if you want to be successful 2007-09-30 05:11:00 Some people aren't able to do what they wanted because of their negative thinking in spite of their great quality and qualification. When they are about to start new work then their negative thinking like what if I be failed, makes them both mentally and physically fatigued. Only feeling of failure can make us weaker.Such person never dare with the strength from the heart to do something difficult. Rather, they blame the situation, the environment and makes many about their failure. But other person are doing great things in the same situation. Former type of person doesn't act according to the situation and even doesn't know how to go with the time and change the way they work or perform.As we can see some person have done unbelievable things whatever qualification do they have. This is actually due to their feeling from the inner heart that they can do whatever they are doing. More tips below to be a successful1. You should have positive and healthy thinking of who you are and wha Read more:not forget
Important tips for Positive Life 2007-09-29 07:57:00 1.Remove some negative language from your vocabularySome words such as "I can't " creates a negative feeling in your mind and directs your mind to the failure attitude. So instead you can say that we can do everything if we tried and I should do the thing in different way. So that I can so this.2.Find the reasonIf you feel that you are thinking negative, then, try to find out the main cause of the negative thinking in you. Whether you are thinking negative by fear of failure in the upcoming exam? Then study hard and you definitely will pass next time and your confidence will also will be built up and all those negative thinking will also will have been kicked away.3.Make a noteMake a daily thought diary and keep note of those circumstances or things that made you think are creating negative thinking in you. Then try to find out what thing you should do to make that positive and try this everyday. You can also discuss such thing with some other person you think will know how to solve s Read more:Positive
Made mistake but don't know what to do? 2007-10-14 21:00:00 Have you finished your work or still uncompleted but unfortunately you have made a mistake while doing that work? And you are worried what to do now? ThenEvery human being makes mistake that may be small or big at some stage of his/her life. We are not machine.We are free to think each and every moment. If you are frightened, worried, become mentally helpless, then that mistake even may effect your whole life. Here below are some tips you can do after if you have made mistake.1. Try to take control of your emotions and thinking. Take a long breath and release slowly and make yourself mentally fresh.2. You can go to some open, fresh place and drink cold water and try to engage yourself with the beauty and scenes of nature. As much as possible, forget all the mistake at this time.3. Now after you are refreshed, think where and how you've made that mistake without any hurry. Look for if there is anything you can do to correct the mistake. If there is no possibility of correcting the mist
Important tips on How to build your confidence (2) 2007-10-11 21:46:00 3. Whatever you are doing, always think about positive about that work. If you think about negative part of that work, hen you never can not do that correctlt and in given time because negative thinking gradually decreases your confidence, inner strength. Rather you should think about positive part. In the course of time while doing any work, try to figure out what you've achieved during that time. If you repeated this, then next time while calculating your achievements, you definitely will have gained more confidence than that of previous one. This shows that you are gaining confidence to do that work and in this way you will feel more confident, energetic.4. Maintain your balance of mind, body and everything in daily life. You can only do everything you want to do if you have balanced mind and body. If there arise some ups and downs in your balance, then you definitely will start to be worried and your inner strength decreses. Mental balance is even more important here. Bacause ment
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