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Dear Waiting For Her Signal, 2007-09-08 09:52:00 I asked this girl out on a date and she said yes. We went out and every thing about it was great. She even said that she loved it. She says she would like to go out again, but it's been four weeks now since that first date. We still talk on the phone, but most of the time she's working nights. Then, almost every weekend she's at the bar. When I talk to her she still says she wants to go out, but never acts on it. I really like this girl, but how do I know whether she likes me or is just saying she wants to go out again to be nice? Am I wasting my time or do I wait and see if she does like me? -Waiting
For Her Signal Dear Waiting For Her Signal,I think you need to be more of an initiator here. You never get anything you want by waiting for people to give it to you. YOU need to ask her out. The next time she says she still wants to go out, make a date right then and there. Have a few ideas of where you want to go before you talk to her. For example, if you want to see a new movie, or
How Much Do Looks Really Matter? 2007-09-08 09:51:00 How Much Do Looks
Really Matter?Jennifer M. Good When it comes to your looks during a first impression, over 200 Lovingyou.com users told us they matter... and a lot! In fact, the top three items mentioned that they notice first when they see the opposite sex are purely physical elements. If you don't find yourself that attractive, or even if you do, we've got some great tips to help you improve your "first impression look" with the opposite sex! Below you'll find the top ten things Lovingyou.com users notice first about the opposite sex and ways you can improve it! 1. The EyesOften cited as the windows to the soul, the eyes were given as the number one feature you notice first! How do you improve it? If you're a woman, get out the books and fashion magazines and research some tips on making your eyes sparkle. If you're a guy, or if you are not big on make up, try these tips that always makes the eyes look great: Get enough sleep. Red around the eyes is not very attractive.
Ways To Stand Out And Be Noticed 2007-09-08 09:50:00 Ways To Stand
Out And Be NoticedJennifer Good When you're in the dating scene, one of the first steps to getting a date is actually getting noticed by someone! The next time you're planning a night out on the town, take a moment to ask yourself, "What can I do to make someone want to talk to me instead of the person next to me?" Below, are a few tips to help you get started! Always carry a smile!People are typically attracted to others that make them feel good about themselves, or life in general. A smile is an excellent icebreaker, and when given to people you'd like to talk to, it brings you one step closer to "first contact." Make eye contact with people.Eye contact can be a very powerful unspoken communication. Poets and lovers alike seem to always tell about these unforgettable moments where all that happened was a captured moment of eye contact between two people. If you use this tool properly, you can create a sense of allure, mystery and desirability. Take the time to re
Ways To Stand Out And Be Noticed 2007-09-08 09:49:00 Ways To Stand
Out And Be NoticedJennifer Good When you're in the dating scene, one of the first steps to getting a date is actually getting noticed by someone! The next time you're planning a night out on the town, take a moment to ask yourself, "What can I do to make someone want to talk to me instead of the person next to me?" Below, are a few tips to help you get started! Always carry a smile!People are typically attracted to others that make them feel good about themselves, or life in general. A smile is an excellent icebreaker, and when given to people you'd like to talk to, it brings you one step closer to "first contact." Make eye contact with people.Eye contact can be a very powerful unspoken communication. Poets and lovers alike seem to always tell about these unforgettable moments where all that happened was a captured moment of eye contact between two people. If you use this tool properly, you can create a sense of allure, mystery and desirability. Take the time to re
Subtle Signs That 2007-09-08 09:47:00 Subtle Signs ThatShow You're InterestedDating Editors You've met someone who's a potential love interest, or you might have a secret crush. So, how do you go about showing them you're interested in them without going overboard? Take some advice on subtle signs you can give from these Lovingyou.com users! Spend extra time around them fussing about them and caring for them. -Bettina Talking to them and flirting. -Becky When the person is speaking I listen to what he says, and show that I am attentive and enjoy it when he is speaking. -furbili Eye contact is definitely a good sign. I often find myself smiling at them, talking to them, and sometimes joking about dating them to get a reaction. If (the reaction is) a good one, then I admit my interest -Sarah Just be extra friendly to the person you're interested in. When at a party, cast him your best smile. If men can put their best foot forward so can women. Picture yourself talking to that person and think about what would really m Read more:Subtle
Conversation Starters 2007-09-08 09:46:00 Conversation StartersJennifer Good When you're meeting or talking on the phone with someone for the first time things can be a bit awkward. Handle any potential unwanted silences with this handy list of conversation starters! If you have a question or comment not listed below, add it to our list using the link below! How was your day? You look really nice, where did you get (item in question)? How was work or school? What movies have you seen recently? How did you like them? If in their car or home, find an item of interest and comment about it. What did you do this weekend (week)? Ask if they saw a favorite TV show or sporting event. Ask about a local current event. (Did you see 'item in question.') What sports do you play or like? Have you been to (a local restaurant). Where are you from? Where did you go to school/college? Have you read any good books lately? What do you normally do for fun? Do you like (an interest of yours)? Read more:Conversation
Perfect The Art Of Small Talk 2007-09-08 09:45:00 Perfect The Art Of Small
TalkLearn to leave a lasting impression...by Jennifer Good What is small talk? Some define it as meaningless conversation used to fill empty silences. I prefer to view it as an opportunity to make a lasting impression with the person you are talking with. If you're in a social situation where you need to make small talk, instead of dreading the useless chatter that usually goes on, strive to make dating contacts with interesting conversation instead! Rules of Engagement: First, avoid the typical conversational drivel that everyone else uses. Comments about the weather and such are a clear sign you have run out of things to talk about. Make yourself appear to be an interesting conversationalist by choosing topics that are of interest to you and the person you're talking to. Second, make yourself confrontable. People will be more receptive to having a conversation with you if you approach them with a smile and an easy manner. Above all things, be yourself Read more:Perfect
How To Ask Someone Out 2007-09-08 09:45:00 How To Ask Someone Outby Bob Narindra Surfing the singles scene can be an extremely time consuming and often frustrating pursuit of love, especially if you are unsure about how to make the first step. While I can't give you a "magic formula" that guarantees success every single time, I can give you some basic guidelines on how to proceed, and hopefully succeed! When you see someone you would like to ask out, the first barrier you'll need to overcome is actually starting a conversation with them. This stage is a lot easier for women than it is for guys. This is the most tricky area as first impressions count - a lot! Guys are almost always just automatically interested when a girl comes to talk to them. Women, however, are not. They usually make up their mind on whether they want anything to do with you almost before you even open your mouth. Therefore, the first step, and this goes for both males and females, in asking someone out is to be presentable and project confidence. Pres
7 Not So Obvious Signs They're 2007-09-08 09:44:00 7 Not So Obvious
Signs They'reInterested In Youby Jennifer Good Have you ever met someone and then had the nagging suspicion that they might have more than "friends" in mind? There aren't always clear cut signs, but there are some not so obvious clues that people give…even when they aren't aware of it. The next time you need help determining a potential partner's interest level, use these seven tips as your guide. 1. Their pupils are enlarged when talking with you.The human pupil dilates when someone is excited or is having strong feelings about something. You can gauge a lot about their interest by paying attention to their eye contact. We often reveal far more than we desire through our eyes. 2. They seem to share a lot of common interests.If someone is engaging in activities that you like to do, or making an extra effort to be a part of them, chances are they're doing it just to spend more time with you. Take notice of how often they are asking or desiring to do things wi
Top 15 Pick Up Lines 2007-09-08 09:33:00 Top 15 Pick Up Lines
Do you believe in love at first sight or should I walk by again?Look at the tag on their shirt and say, "Just as I thought, made in heaven."Do you have a map,? I just got lost in your eyes.Can I have a band-aid? I scraped my knees when I fell for you.My name isn't Elmo, but you can tickle me anytime you want!I hope you know CPR, because you take my breath away.Kiss me if I'm wrong, but don't I know you?Does my tongue taste funny?Excuse me, are your intials M&M? Cause you look so good I bet you'd melt in my mouth.The word of the day is legs. Let's go to my place and spread the word!I hear kissing is the language of love. Dare to indulge in a little conversation?Your name MUST be Campbell's... 'cause you are mmm mmm good!Your body's name must be VISA, because you are everywhere I want to be.If you were a hamburger at McDonald's, you'd be a McGorgeous.I may not be Fred Flinstone, but I can sure make your Bedrock.
5 Flirting Tips For Dating Success 2007-09-08 09:32:00 5 Flirting
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Find out the secrets of successful flirt...by Jennifer Good Flirting is not rocket science. It is simply a common sense method of letting people know you’re available without being tacky or obnoxious. AND… if done properly, it is your best chance at snagging your future partner! So, get ready to demystify the art of flirting with these five fabulous flirting tips. Practice your new moves on the object of your desire this weekend… #1: Be SincereIf you’re going to flirt, you need to be real about it. Anyone can spot a fake a mile away. If you’re feeling insecure about your flirting skills, don’t start with your secret crush since the 10th grade. Begin in a situation you are most comfortable with. If you’re going to pay compliments to someone, be sincere about them. Really mean what you are saying and your results will be well worth the effort. #2: SmileA smile is the simplest form of flattery. It shows that you are genuinely interes
Top 10 Signs They're Interested In You 2007-09-08 09:29:00 Top 10 Signs They're Interested In You Wondering if that particular someone has more than a little friendship in mind? Check out our top ten list of ways people indicate whether they are interested in you or not. 10. They seem interested in anything and everything you have to say. 9. The way they talk to you. 8. They frequently show public displays of affection. 7. They frequently try to talk to you. 6. They compliment you a lot. 5. They flirt with you. 4. They ask a lot of questions about you. 3. They try to spend as much time with you as possible. 2. They frequently call you. 1. The way they constantly look at you.
Why Are You Single? 2007-09-08 09:25:00 Why Are You Single? Get over your obstacles and find love... by Jennifer Good So here you are spending another Sunday morning alone instead of cozying up sharing breakfast in bed with your special someone. Have you ever stopped and asked yourself why? I'm not referring to the rhetorical questions you throw out in the midst of singlehood despair. If you dig a little deeper you might just find a way to break through and realize your dreams of happily ever after. Below are few of the most common scenarios of why people haven't found love. If any strike a chord follow the advice given. If not, take some time for honest self-discovery and find out what's blocking you. 1. Too busy to even think about love.With all of life's demands these days, taking time to find a partner can seem incredulous. Instead, learn to play smart. Make a list of traits you'd like a potential partner to have. Create a list of things you offer and can bring to a relationship. Then, figure out a few plac
Are You Dateable? 2007-09-08 09:24:00 Are You Dateable?by Jennifer Good So often when there is something we decide we want, we spend all of our focus and energy on the flow of getting it. Unfortunately, what we don't realize is that with an attentive eye focused on ourselves we will find the answer to our quest. If you've ever wondered why you may be finding it difficult to find your perfect match, it may be time to analyze what it is you are offering. The following questions are aimed at helping you discover your dateability. Are you happy?People pick up on unconscious thoughts. If you're not happy, it is pretty safe to say you are permeating the air with your negativity. Find out what would really make you happy, and do it! Positive people are people magnets. Find yourself and you may also find the other half you are looking for. Do you say "my ex" more than 5 times a day?What's done is done. If you want a potential partner to remain interested, don't give off signs that you're still emotionally committed. Allo
love 2007-09-08 09:15:00 After any long-term relationship it may be tough to find the inner strength or desire to open your heart to love again. When a love interest comes knocking at your door, how do you know that old battle wounds and scars have been healed enough to let love in? Seeing as each person is completely individual, there really isn't a way to know exactly when the right time to begin a new relationship is. What may work for one person, may not work for another. Fortunately, there are a few key attributes that successful relationships have in common. If you find that you meet these, then it may be time to let love in. When you're ready to analyze your heart's state of affairs, take an honest look at the questions below to determine how ready you really are. 1 - How stable is your life? How can you possibly hope to keep a relationship together if your life isn't put together properly? I think many of us use relationships as a way to help fix ourselves, when actually; we should be trying to d
डार LOve 2007-09-08 09:09:00 I have been searching for love now for a very long time. I have looked for it, I have let it find me, but I can't seem to find the right person. When I am in a relationship, it never seems to work out. I think it has a lot to do with me choosing the wrong men, and also me having so many insecurities and issues to deal with. How will I ever find love and keep love? I have been single now for a little over a year. My last relationship was with my daughter's father. Also, being that I have a 2 year old, I don't want her to see men coming and going. I want a stable, secure, long lasting relationship. But it never works out that way for me. What can I do to find sincere love and keep it? -Loveless Dear Loveless,You can't go to the store and buy a pack of love. You can't even be with someone and guarantee it's going to be love. In fact, there is no way to know when love is going to strike. Even when it does, it may not be reciprocated. So what's a person to do? Be patient and try to
Psychology of love 2007-09-06 08:36:00 Psychology of love Further information: Human bonding Psychology depicts love as a cognitive and social phenomenon. Psychologist Robert Sternberg formulated a triangular theory of love and argued that love has three different components: Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. Intimacy is a form by which two people can share secrets and various details of their personal lives. Intimacy is usually shown in friendships and romantic love affairs. Commitment, on the other hand, is the expectation that the relationship is going to last forever. The last and most common form of love is sexual attraction and passion. Passionate love is shown in infatuation as well as romantic love. This led researchers such as Yela[citation needed] to further refine the model by separating Passion into two independents components: Erotic Passion and Romantic Passion. Following developments in electrical theories, such as Coulomb's law, which showed that positive and negative charges attract, analogs i
Biology of love 2007-09-06 08:24:00 Biology of love Further information: Interpersonal chemistry Biological models of sex tend to view love as a mammalian drive,[citation needed] much like hunger or thirst. Helen Fisher, a leading expert in the topic of love, divides the experience of love into three partly-overlapping stages: lust, attraction, and attachment. Lust exposes people to others, romantic attraction encourages people to focus their energy on mating, and attachment involves tolerating the spouse long enough to rear a child into infancy. Lust is the initial passionate sexual desire that promotes mating, and involves the increased release of chemicals such as testosterone and estrogen. These effects rarely last more than a few weeks or months. Attraction is the more individualized and romantic desire for a specific candidate for mating, which develops out of lust as commitment to an individual mate forms. Recent studies in neuroscience have indicated that as people fall in love, the brain consistentl
देफिनितिओंस LOVE 2007-09-06 08:18:00 Definitions The definition of love is the subject of considerable debate, enduring speculation and thoughtful introspection. The difficulty of finding a universal definition for love is typically tackled by classifying it into types, such as passionate love, romantic love, and committed love. These types of love can often be generalized into a level of sexual attraction. In common use, love has two primary meanings, the first being an indication of adoration for another person or thing, and the second being a state of relational status. Love is an act of identifying with a person or thing, capable of even including oneself (cf. narcissism; reverence). Dictionaries tend to define love as deep affection or fondness.[1] In colloquial use, according to polled opinion, the most favored definitions of love involve altruism, selflessness, friendship, union, family, and bonding or connecting with another.[6] Thomas Jay Oord has defined love in various scholarly publications as act
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