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The Space between Us… 2007-10-03 00:07:20
I read an interview of Asia Argento in a magazine, and she had those words towards the balance of a relationship:
“If we don’t have the same intellectual level, if life didn’t offer us the same rewards, then it’s a permanent competition. Sometimes, men don’t feel they can face it, and this unbalance inside the couple can lead to sexual troubles”
This reminds me of the principle of the litost explained by Milan Kundera in one of his books. According to the writer, the litost is the feeling you have if you get beaten in your domain by someone else. An example? If you beat a guy by swimming or running faster than he, he would feel a resentment towards you. That’s the litost.
I have rarely heard stories of women jealous of their men’s successes, education or social environment. But on the men’s side, it’s really frequent. Let’s take an example. “I graduated from one of the prestigious universities of my country, and I was the major of my promotion. I work now Read more:Space
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Patience for tomorrow……. 2007-10-02 00:54:23 Good Morning,
I was wondering how quick days were running away from my life. Every day bringing new hope for my tomorrow
and it’s also making my each day more precious. But today am little bit confused about tomorrow&hellip
;…Should I take prompt decision or Should I keep my patience to see what’s waiting for my tomorrow…..?
……………ha ha ha ha…..Chill Chill I was just trying to make my reader’s little bit puzzled about my writing mood. But relax, am not at all confused about any decision in my life.
Few days ago, I met with my one cousin sister’s friend Anami….She’s a very cute girl and I was really very happy to meet with her. You can’t imagine how much patience she has in her life. Her life starts with many difficulties, including her study problem, living problem, marriage problem….etc etc etc. But she never lost her patience. Her attitude towards her life was very optimisti
Soulmate Thoughts…. 2007-09-29 23:42:43 I have always loved Fairy tales. The Cinderella, Prince Charming, and the Knight in Shining Armour.. As I grew up, I resisted all those hard practicality knocks and held on to those dreams.. Somehow I always felt that there is this ideal soul mate made to order for me, who complements and completes me in the journey of love and life. Its tough at times to keep on hoping, not to melt those unspoken dreams at the test of times. Whenever I trade off those pieces of dreams for fragments of reality, it leaves a hollow in heart to accept that in life those little dreams may not take shape at all. That dream home can turn out to be a loveless cramped apartment, those peace filled surroundings are in actuality dull roads filled with roaring vehicles, that picture perfect world will end up as a portrait, and that ideal Mr. Right could turnout to be a frog..
Sometimes people can actually mess up and trample those treasure trove of yearnings and mock our dreams that we hold so dear. How I wish I Read more:hellip
Eid Mubarak !! 2007-10-13 00:07:35
To My Thousand Of Visitors Who Visits Me Everyday
Today Is really Very Very Special Moment For All of Us around the Whole World…..ANd IN this special Festival I want to wish my all readers a very special Eid…..
Eid Mubarak……!!
This Eid Banner Had Been Taken from Badh Bhangar Aawaj….Somewhere in…blog…..
You’re on the other side of the world to me 2007-10-10 17:32:03 Another Excellent Post By Modobs…..I simply Love Her Articles….This Article Kept here for my personal collection….
Who’s never been rejected by the one you’re in love with? If you haven’t, then either you’re really really lucky or just a liar. If we could always get what we want, that would be too easy. I’ve watched for years now my cousin trying to get his long-time kindergarten love, who just basically makes him hope he’ll someday reach his goal. That’s just pure cruelty. On the other hand, my cousin should move on and understand for good he would never have her. But it’s not easy.
Some people can’t stand being fooled like that and choose only people that are interested in them. But for some reasons, some people fall in love with someone that doesn’t love them back. “Everyone is just astonished when I say I’m not lucky in love. I’m not attracted to the ones that are attracted to me, I only fall for guys who couldn’t care less about me
Determination About Girl’s Career….!! 2007-10-10 05:02:53 Good Afternoon Readers,
It’s my holiday so I didn’t want to write much but later I thought you must be waiting for my new post right ? So Were you waiting for my post ? ha ha&hellip
;just kidding never mind….
Today I like to talk about ambition and career about girl….what I feel most of south asian girl’s usually scare about pursuing their career in a high position before they get married. If they not get married very early they biased with others non-sense talks who motivate them not to pursue or go for settle up for their career. This really quite sad that even after their graduation they didn’t want to go further for continue their job/further establishment of their study……
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Well, I have more to say but I got an urgent work now so readers am very sorry, so I h Read more:Determination
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The lost art of keeping a secret 2007-10-08 23:39:36
In my previous job, it was kind of a sport to seduce your colleague. I still remember some employees gushing about the number of conquests they had in the company (it was a big company employing more than 10000 people). Everyone knew about everyone’s love affair in the building. All the topics of our lunches boiled down to gossips about that.
In my newsroom now, everyone seems to have a different approach regarding internal affairs. But it still nourishes our lunch conversation, because we’re speculating on potential couples. Two of my colleagues kept their relationship secret from us during four years, until last year, the female journalist got pregnant and had to tell us who was the father. But we had doubts about them before, because they took all their holidays together, and lived nearby each other, very nearby…
There’s another couple forming that we’re suspecting right now. From their side, it has been denial, denial, denial so far. They pretend they’re just frien
The Story Of Nadine :( 2007-10-16 08:24:47 This Note Taken From Facebook Thread….I have no words right now but I am going to write a post about Nadine
Murshed in my Blog but Reader’s Open your Eyes…..How Can We protect WOmen Like Nadine From Such Wild Society and Criminals….Open Your Eyes…..:(
this is a note my friend nadine just wrote…she fell in love and married a guy - before long the guy started torturing and molesting her…it went on non stop for a month before finally the police rescued her from an inevitable end…
this just goes to prove once again that our society is still full of animals..bastards who dont know how to treat women..even ivy league education cannot enlighten them…
Nadine’s note -
I am lucky to be alive, and there must be a reason why the month-long abuse I sustained did not culminate in my death. I had said my ‘innah lillah..’s and was prepared to die, but that didn’t happen. Instead, he raped me with my head draped wit
Why We Are Supporting Nadine and We Think You Should Too 2007-10-24 22:17:48 Fariha Sarawat Wrote An Excellent Note In facebook About Nadine
Murshid. I cross post here to spread her note and for my personal collection. thanks to Fariha for such great write up.
“Your Silence Will Not Protect You”
— Audre Lorde, poet, feminist, activist
In the last week, as we tried to spread the word and create awareness about the heinous violence survived by Nadine Murshid, we have all faced unprecedented opposition and criticism. Some, of course, have been brought forward by the close friends, family and allies of the perpetrator, Sajid Huq, but some more, however, have come from quarters we had not expected to oppose the opposition of domestic violence. It amazes me how most people are unable to grasp the common fact that you DO NOT abuse another human being, let alone your own wife, in the manner survived by Nadine, and that there is NO excuse for RAPE! What kind of an animal rapes his own wife? Till quite recently, I never thought that I would actually see i
Are They Lying to You? 2007-10-24 07:12:19 Collected from Yahoo Biz Talks By Ken Osborn for my personal collection
How many times has your business suffered because you trusted the wrong person? If you’re like most people, you’ve been lied to thousands of times.
Deception hurts in many ways. There’s the emotional stress from being betrayed, the loss of self-confidence and the increased suspicion or even paranoia. Not to mention the financial cost.
A deceptive supplier may promise that a shipment will arrive by your deadline, all the while knowing that delivery by the promised date is impossible. Trusting this supplier could cost your company thousands of dollars or more. Deceptions like this can be deadly to a growing business.But you don’t have to be a victim. Here are seven subtle cues that often mean a person isn’t being completely honest with you.
1. Nose touch: We have erectile tissues in our noses, which engorge with blood when we lie. This causes a tingling or itching sensation that require Read more:Lying
24 Responses to “Women’s group slates attack on Brac teacher by husband in NY” 2007-10-24 07:05:50
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A friend Says:
October 22nd, 2007 at 7:55 pm This article is pretty close to libel and is very poorly researched given that Sajid has pleaded innocent to all charges and is fighting the case in courts in both New York and Bangladesh. In addition, Nadine’s history is pretty checquered and has a history of emotional instability so groups should refrain from commenting before the court cases are over and the truth is out. In most civilized countries people are innocent until proven guilty.
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A friend of human rights Says:
October 23rd, 2007 at 4:37 am One should also know that Nadine Murshid has a bigamy case against her in Bangladesh. From what I hear, Nadine Murshid had 2 husbands, her husband Sajid found out about the other, which led to Sajid wanting to divorce her. Next morning, Nadine Murshid put him away with false charges, fabricated pictures, etc, to seal his mouth. You may want to check with Gulshan Thana for the bigamy case on Nadine Mur Read more:Women
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Justice for Nadine Murshid!! Check Out Sajid’s Photo…!! 2007-10-23 23:39:49
this thread collected from facebook for awaring our social friend’s to be there with Nadine
murshid in her terrible condition. be there if you feel like to and give your feedback in my blog&hellip
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Nadine Murshid- beloved schoolmate, lecturer, colleague, friend and sister to her well-wishers- was recently victim to barbaric abuse, assault and rape by her husband in New York.
Adding insult to injury (not only figure of speech but literally speaking, in this case), the perpetrator and his family members have been engaged in orchestrating a vile propaganda campaign against the victim as well as threatening her family (see Daily Star article for details).
This group has been created to a) support Nadine, who is currently recovering from the physical torture amd mental trauma she had to endure, b) condemn the perpetrator for his barbaric and heinous crimes, c) demand that the perpetrator is brought to justice in court and jailed for his crimes, d) oppose the vile propaganda and secu Read more:Justice
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Marketing Idea No. 88 - How to be the best in the world 2007-10-23 05:57:03
collected for my personal collection
What does it take to be the best in the world? According to the new ground breaking book by Seth Godin called “The Dip”, every one of us can be the best in the world in whatever ways we like. And to ensure our journey to the top of the world, we need to avoid the following mistakes.
According to him, there are 7 reasons why we cant be the best in the world.
1. We run out of time (and quit).
2. We run out of money (and quit).
3. We get scared (and quit).
4. We’re not serious about it (and quit).
5. We lose interest or enthusiasm or settle for being mediocre (and quit).
6. We focus on the short term instead of the long (and quit when the short term gets too hard).
7. We pick the wrong thing at which to be the best in the world (because you don’t have the talent).
According to Seth Godin, the formula for being the world’s best is simple,
“Quit the dead ends and invest resources in your chosen path”.
Practice branding for 10 years be Read more:Marketing
How beautiful It Is When You Know The Truth…. 2007-10-29 07:25:38
Good evening readers, it’s really very colorful evening for me and I am really so happy that life treat me some beautiful truth which helps me to make my vission more clear about the beauty of life and it’s also help me to go for the depth of knowledge to identify how great it is to feel when some truth come infront of you that you were looking for the answer for long. I’m really very very happy readers.
Well last couple of days I couldn’t come up with my post because of my personal computer, it’s not working perfectly, hope I will get it fixed soon and can’t wait to share my thoughts about Nadine’s Story, Life’s Real Accuracy, Stamina and many more. So Reader’s wait for my coming post and keep viewing my blog for many more up coming latest post&hellip
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One random evening and the following night 2007-10-25 22:17:03 this post was written by Motahera Shermin, she was my colleague for long, I like her post very much, so it’s been cross post here for my personal collection.
Her work was finished early that day. It was raining heavily outside, it wasn’t safe to go home when she had a wound in process of healing. She started anyway. The smoky, dark, grey and highly absorbent surrounding was making her lifeless by every step; it was like she would desolve in that rain, she would stop existing anymore in that utterly insignificant evening
. The stupid train was also late that day, none else on the platform waiting with her ( who would be stupid enough in that rain!!). The rhythm of rain on that empty platform kept resonating inside of her, making her thoughts scatter such a way that she felt robbed of feelings. A cyclone of tears was running her down keeping the dry, lifeless exterior intact. She couldn’t find any reason why she was so sad, so blue!!
She came home after a while. As alwa
rejoice my amazing one year with somewhere in… 2007-11-01 02:47:28 it’s quite expeditious …still I can’t believe I had completed amazing first year spending my colorful days working with somewhere in… and my fantastic contemporaries. It was just exactly one year back when I formally joined with somewhere in. as it’s my first job so I always have some special affectionate with each and every part of my workplace. I never could understand working ambiance can be so spirited unless I am the part of somewhere in…
I was really excited also a bit thrilled the very first day. but every sole talent of somewhere in…made my first day so contented. When arild introduced me with them they greet me so genially. I felt like I knew all of them for long. If I roll back to my last one year it’s full of excited errand, colorful moments and a full box of chocolate reminiscences.
today I like to thank all of you for making my voyage with somewhere in…splendid. Thank you all and thanks to somewhere in… kindred:
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” ultra modern high society girls of dhaka ” 2007-10-30 05:23:46
this photo had been taken from the new year party at radisson, dhaka
For last couple of days I had gone through many stuffs regarding living style of Dhaka’s girls. My Question to all my reader is that why we are changing our culture rapidly? what’s the main reason of following western culture…? Don’t you think the problem city girls facing now a days partially happened because of such trend that we started in our society?
One Question I have to All my readers :
Think for a while, how we can stop this threaten in our society? And what will be your next step for helping your friend to stop going through such pains in their life from addiction, abuse and other major difficulties in their life….?
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Together we started our life…. 2007-10-30 05:18:12
“A great marriage is not when the ‘perfect couple’ comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.”
Marriage&hellip
;.is just a begining of a beautiful tomorrow that every heart dream about….not only girls but it’s also cherish dream in everyone’s heart to stay together always smiling with their beloving life partner. But it’s not that easy to keep that relationship smooth. Despite its need a lot of mutual understand with each other.
Some husband and wife are good pairs while others are not. All depends on how much true love is there in between them. A true love cannot happen between two persons of opposite nature. That’s why love marriage is always better than the arranged marriage. When both of them love each other and get married, the life would be easier and most beautiful life having great enjoyment. But arranged marriage is also good if the pair understand each other. But some marriages which are
Am Feeling Like A Busy Fairy… 2007-11-05 06:25:53
“The wall is silence, the grass is sleep,
Tall trees of peace their vigil keep,
And the Fairy of Dreams with moth-wings furled
Plays soft on her flute to the drowsy world.”
Life seems very beautiful right at this moment, and readers you know am feeling just like a busy fairy&hellip
;.too many task to finish but mashallah everything going smoothly as it supposed to go, I think blessings from almighty going perfect to me, though yep i had paased through lot’s tough days during last few days. But finally a bit relaxed that things going perfectly with me….I know you must be wondering why i can’t write good post about my daily life experiences, but it’s going really very critical moment’s for me. But am really happy to see my readers always stay with me no matter what condition i had to go with….Anyways it’s really tiring, busy but nice work at office, I will be coming with my post shortly…..You guys will wait for me right&hell Read more:Feeling
Believe You Can…. 2007-11-11 00:40:56
” Time is a one-way street, so don’t look back&hellip
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Emotional bond’s really affected a lot during the street of girl’s life so much. They take decisions in life with heart more than the brain. That’s one of the prime reason girl’s sometime stay idle with their dreams and hopes.
But it’s not at all difficult too…but you have to have believe upon yourself that you can….You can make your dreams come true, You can move forward to remove all the obstacles way to your destiny….You can fight against all the narrow minded people who loves to bug you. I know when I say it’s sounds like movies but girl’s trust me, if you really believe yourself, and give the best try in your life then it’s not at all hard to reach your destiny and keep flying in the sky like birds…..But yes above of all you have to be morally very strong type of girls…..:) Make your vision clear about your life. And I am qu
Honeymoon….best memory to cherish forever in couple’s life… 2007-11-13 23:39:19
An all inclusive Honeymoon
Vacation includes everything you need to have a romantic and relaxing Honeymoon. And after the stress and craziness of the wedding what couple
doesn’t need this. The all inclusive package can save couples not only money but countless hours of work and planning.Honeymoon Vacation planning should be exciting and fun and the end result should be a carefree escape to paradise. When planning your all inclusive Honeymoon Package, often times the hardest part is getting started and searching for the perfect Honeymoon Vacation can still be overwhelming.The best way to start is to come to a consensus of where you both would like to go and the type of activities that you both enjoy doing together. Once you have this squared away you can start looking for all inclusive offers in that area and start comparing prices, accommodations, levels of service, and activities.All inclusive Honeymoons provide a romantic intimate setting for a lifetime of Honeymoon memories and t Read more:hellip
“জাগরণ” ক্যাম্পেইন… 2007-11-20 22:54:59 My Dearest Readers,We all already aware that people of Bangladesh facing real terrible days after the disaster that happened just a few days ago with “Cyclone Sidr” attack in our country. So for last couple of days I was extremely busy with my company “somewhere in&hellip
;” for making an “awareness campaign” successful. And I’m very happy to inform you all that the first bangla blogging enginee….somewhere in…blog started a campaign to collect fund via people’s awareness for “save the children” fund.
If you send only one SMS from your mobile written “save” from your text and then send it to 5455 from any Bangladeshi mobile operator then corporate sponsors will add their donation for “save the childen fund relief for Sidr victim people”
So our task is to make this campaign successful via sending one sms and invite our family and members to send their one sms to help ” Sidr Affec
Revisiting Friendship 2007-11-20 03:29:49 Back in July I wrote on True Male Friendship
and considered the relationship that men share in true friendship. I have given this topic a bit more thought therefore I would revisit this subject in today’s post.
I look back on my life, at only 26, and think of the numerous friendships that I have had the privilege to participate. Some friendships were only for a season, but were enriching to my life. Then others that remain to this day that have blossomed from friendship into a brotherhood with a bond that cannot be broken. To be honest, I have never been the best at making friends. I have always been backward, awkward and shy around people I don’t know. Never being the person that begins the conversation with a stranger. Always being the person in the back of the room timid and a bit scared at how others look at me. However, those enduring friendships that God has brought into my life have been a bottomless fountain upon which I draw for daily strength. In other words, I had rather